you could say something like: due to another offer, I wish to withdraw from my position as (role title) with (company's name)...Good point, a conflict avoidant part of me has surfaced it seems
Does it still sound good if I drop the second sentence and don't add anything else?
I have jet black hair naturally and would normally go for a lighter brown, so no "at home" colour kit works for me if the base is black
I've never noticed it on whites, just coloured tops that are all a similar fabric , so they must be prone to it . I'll try washing them on their own, without softener.
I didn't mean to be rude or anything. I just wasn't sure why I was being quoted with information because I wasn't the one who needed to know it needed be in the fridge. I didn't mean to offend
I think it's a lovely gesture, but not necessary to be honest. It was an easy mistake to make, and they should have told you not to ring the doorbell etc. You've apologised and I think that's all you really need to do tbh!Hi all just want to know if you think I'm overthinking and to forget it or whether my idea is a good one or too much!
Short version: I accidently woke up my friends toddler and he then took forever to go back to sleep meaning his dad missed dinner so I was going to get a voucher for just eat or something so he can have a hot dinner
Long version: I was going round my sisters best friend's house last night to plan her hen do. Another friend was joining us.
I went to my mums beforehand as she lives 10 mins away from sisters BF and it made sense for me to kill 2 birds as it were and not have to go home between working in the office etc. She was winding me up, as she often does, by being a bit of a mug in regards to my sister and she had had a drink which is never good with her.
Anyway I ended up leaving hers to avoid an argument. I had in my head we were meeting at 7 so left at 6:45 got there about 6:55 sat in the car replying to some texts and then rang the doorbell at bang on 7.
This is when I then realise I might have made a mistake. The dog starts barking and then I hear the toddler yell.
BFs husband invites me in. I sit down and he goes up to help with said toddler and swap with BF. On the cross over on the stairs I hear BF say he had just gone off but is awake now
BF comes down and we have a hug and a chat. BF then says other friend is on their way and I realise my error.
We were meant to be meeting at 7:15 not 7. I profusely apologise and BF said it's OK I'm used to your sister (who I have ranted about previously as she is always 30 mins early at least) I said noooooo I just got my times wrong.
When other friend arrives at the right time, they have kids and obvs know not to ring the doorbell!!!! So as they was expecting her at 7:15 the door was ajar ready for her to just walk in
So basically toddler doesn't end up going to sleep until nearly 9pm! And dad missed dinner with us and basically had to eat his pizza cold
My husband was like well BF should have said don't ring the doorbell. I said I shouldn't have been 15 mins early.
Anyway, well done if you have made it this far!!! I was thinking of sending them like £10/£15 just eat voucher or similar with a note apologising and saying treat yourself to some hot pizza?
Am I overthinking and should just leave it? And the voucher is a bit much? Or is that a nice gesture when I woke their kid up? Or will they think "oh dear child free idiot thinks this one bad night was her fault, how silly of her"
£10 to £15 per head for a main do you mean? Or a whole meal?
Shampoo the roots only and conditioner on the ends? Hair mask?I've seen you can rub it with a tumble dryer sheet too...she said she doesn't want to wash it daily as it's bleached and dries it out .
I’ve just renewed my pet insurance. My boy is getting on a bit now (he’s 9
) so my main priority was making sure the limit on the vet fees covered was the highest possible as the older they get, the more likely it is that they’ll need complex and costly treatment if something crops up. I went for £10,000 of cover with £125 excess and that includes lifetime cover for long term illness. You might also consider things like PTS and cremation, which I think you can only claim for if your pet is below a certain age, but something to keep in mind. Horrible to think about, but practical.
Thank you both. I’ve just mustered some willpower and have just sorted it via webassistant (as calling up is a hassle for me) and they didn’t ask for any dates. I also seem to have had 10 quid knocked off the renewal price too. I don’t know why these things always cause anxiety. I do read things but must admit, the job title escaped my notice. Phew, one thing off my list of things that are on my mind.
I don’t think anyone has ever checked my signature. Fingers crossed it will be okay for you too.Random question but my hubby and I are flying on Sunday and we've both got the new blue passports. Anyway my husband went to sign his and he's managed to put a big black smudge on it where he's signed. Does anyone reckon that could be a problem? Slightly freaking out
I’m laughing at myself because now you’ve said it to me I think it’s so obvious as to why I feel so exhausted all the time
Sometimes you just need someone to give you a reality check to realise! I’m unsure as to how much of everything I should eat. I’m going to order one of those huge water bottles otherwise I won’t stick to it!
good point, I’ll get a long sleeved t shirt and try it under. Itll be great when it gets a bit colder
Has he definitely put weight on or is it water retention and being bloated which can make people appear fat? .
it’s an easy mistake to make, toddlers wake up allllll the time and take ages going back to sleep so they should have been more careful. I think an apology is just necessary but if you feel better giving them the gift card then you should. But I don’t think its neededHi all just want to know if you think I'm overthinking and to forget it or whether my idea is a good one or too much!
Short version: I accidently woke up my friends toddler and he then took forever to go back to sleep meaning his dad missed dinner so I was going to get a voucher for just eat or something so he can have a hot dinner
Long version: I was going round my sisters best friend's house last night to plan her hen do. Another friend was joining us.
I went to my mums beforehand as she lives 10 mins away from sisters BF and it made sense for me to kill 2 birds as it were and not have to go home between working in the office etc. She was winding me up, as she often does, by being a bit of a mug in regards to my sister and she had had a drink which is never good with her.
Anyway I ended up leaving hers to avoid an argument. I had in my head we were meeting at 7 so left at 6:45 got there about 6:55 sat in the car replying to some texts and then rang the doorbell at bang on 7.
This is when I then realise I might have made a mistake. The dog starts barking and then I hear the toddler yell.
BFs husband invites me in. I sit down and he goes up to help with said toddler and swap with BF. On the cross over on the stairs I hear BF say he had just gone off but is awake now
BF comes down and we have a hug and a chat. BF then says other friend is on their way and I realise my error.
We were meant to be meeting at 7:15 not 7. I profusely apologise and BF said it's OK I'm used to your sister (who I have ranted about previously as she is always 30 mins early at least) I said noooooo I just got my times wrong.
When other friend arrives at the right time, they have kids and obvs know not to ring the doorbell!!!! So as they was expecting her at 7:15 the door was ajar ready for her to just walk in
So basically toddler doesn't end up going to sleep until nearly 9pm! And dad missed dinner with us and basically had to eat his pizza cold
My husband was like well BF should have said don't ring the doorbell. I said I shouldn't have been 15 mins early.
Anyway, well done if you have made it this far!!! I was thinking of sending them like £10/£15 just eat voucher or similar with a note apologising and saying treat yourself to some hot pizza?
Am I overthinking and should just leave it? And the voucher is a bit much? Or is that a nice gesture when I woke their kid up? Or will they think "oh dear child free idiot thinks this one bad night was her fault, how silly of her"
It’s the mundane things that become erelevant when your consumed by grief. A shop, a dinner, maybe off to clean or do some washing. Things that will allow her to focus on herself and I suspect the funeral arrangements. If she’s alone, perhaps offer to go with her to the funeral directors etc.
Don't forget the sink and drains. They lay eggs in damp places. Rinse those pipes out baby!
I have some TOMS sliders for indoors and they're a dream to wear, still going strong after 4 years !
God it’s awful isn’t it
I’ve listened to her so many times saying she’s not a fighter, she hates drama, she’s not confrontational…. But all they do is scream at each other!! They fight at home, they fight in the pub, they fight in airports, in public, on holiday…. She runs away from him and he chases her down, he punches walls, they name call…. Then she cries to me that he’s awful and so scary…. And then she goes back to him and I’m supposed to smile and pretend I’m ok with it
