What a condescending smug little witch… first of all, the question someone asked about how she has so many babysitters, and she just responded “we are so lucky”… don’t bother putting up that question if you’re not going to answer it properly you little cow… second and of all, to be able to say “as long as you’re both thriving it doesn’t matter”, does she not realise how incredibly privileged and entitled she is to be able to say that?! I’m sure the majority of mothers would agree that for the first 6 months- 1 year of the their babies life, our own lives took a back seat in the name of survival. And that could have been compromising on sleep, getting to eat on time, nights out, weekends away, time to do our hair and makeup every day, whatever… and I’m not talking about being a mammy martyr, that’s just the way it is for most normal parents… my baby was thriving, but for the majority of time I certainly did not feel like I was thriving… so duck you Terrie for the terrible advice to that vulnerable parent.