Since the start Amber has not been able to do the basic parenting. Structure, routine, boundaries and understanding positive and negative reinforcement. Her life would be easier if she got these, as the professional told her when Brooklyn was Hudson's age. She rewards naughty behaviour to get peace. Brooklyn kicking the living room door! Then she shouts. Go and get him, tell him we do not kick doors and if you do it again this will happen = whatever you say the consequences are, SEE IT THROUGH. She does not do this and she will go through the same with Hudson. It would help her so much if she got the basics. They boys are crying out for it. It’s like rapid return with sleeping in their own beds. Keep on until they learn. They will push you to your absolute limits in the process. There needs to be specialised training groups for new parents who struggle