I don't think she moved out of the loft. She is just visiting Ireland. She said on her stories she wants to stay there I think. I don't know why youd burn money on a place that big for only one person but she wants the aesthetics I guess lol. It's not even "cool" to live in a loft in Brooklyn anymore anyway she's about 10 years late to that. Her loft is like a gentrified fancy version of loft living anyway.
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The nude shots 
this girl 
At least she didn't post it from her parents house, I cant imagine what they would think of that. Guess the aesthetic wouldn't suit
I wonder if that guy she was on her staycation with is still on the scene? I know irish lads, and I can guarantee he is being ROASTED over this. Imagine having to share ur girls body with the lad group. Or bring her home to mother
this girl At least she didn't post it from her parents house, I cant imagine what they would think of that. Guess the aesthetic wouldn't suit
Also! Any wonder the boyfriend left her! She's been posting thirst traps for the last like 18 months. She tries to cover it with her "divine feminine energy" bullshit, but she clearly is just not getting enough male attention.The nude shots
At least she didn't post it from her parents house, I cant imagine what they would think of that. Guess the aesthetic wouldn't suit
I wonder if that guy she was on her staycation with is still on the scene? I know irish lads, and I can guarantee he is being ROASTED over this. Imagine having to share ur girls body with the lad group. Or bring her home to mother
Seriously, I mean she's been slogging away since 2012 right? At some point she should evaluate what is making her growth so slow. What makes people follow her then unfollow would be a good place to start.
I was coming on here to roast her for thinking "I live in New York" is a personality type, but christ no wonder it's such an oasis to her if she has to deal with this tit attitude back home. I'm not getting the big deal over a photo where she's as covered as she would be at the beach. Do the Irish lads also think bikini-clad women at the beach belong to em too?I wonder if that guy she was on her staycation with is still on the scene? I know irish lads, and I can guarantee he is being ROASTED over this. Imagine having to share ur girls body with the lad group. Or bring her home to mother
Have to agree with this. This attitude towards women celebrating their bodies and their sexuality is one of the many reasons I could never see myself back home. There's a lot to critique about Tara but if she wants to post a photo of herself in her knickers then she should absolutely be able to do that without worrying about some lad she's seeing getting shite from his mates over it. And if he is, that says more about him and his mates than it does about her.
Interesting perspective. I've seen lots of people celebrating their bodies and their sexuality. If it comes from an authentic place, thats grand. The issue I have with Tara is that it doesn't come from a place of anything other than her narcissism. And I do find her inability to consider any one other than herself an issue.
I also think you would be hard pressed to find many men who are comfortable with their girlfriend flaunting themselves on insta. And I dont think that's isolated to ireland.... you might disagree since you say that you could never see yourself coming back home? May I ask where you are situated?
I think its more the implication of taking the photo in ur apartment by yourself. It just screams narcissism and look at me.
Yes she is as covered as she would be in a bikini, and if she was at the beach or whatever, no one would bat an eyelid. But its different. There is an element of sleaze about the photo.
And dont base your perception of Ireland on one post. I have my opinion. Other Irish people surely disagree.
How are her photos any different from the other women sharing their bodies from an "authentic" place on Instagram? The only difference I can see is that she doesn't have an uplifting quote about "loving your flaws" to go along with the image. I think I actually prefer her less performative version of celebrating yourself tbh. There are definitely other things she does though (like that cringe dancing and eye-bleeping herself in front of the camera) that are a lot more narcissistic/vapid, but I saw that photo as quite artistic, maybe it's because I'm in a visual field myself.
I agree it's hard to find men who are comfortable with that (especially in Ireland) but that doesn't mean it's right. Accepting that type of attitude is the reason why men continue to belittle women for behavior like this. Thankfully, there are some men out there who are capable of discerning the difference between sharing yourself with an audience (especially if it's part of your job) and the way you share yourself with them in private. Those are the types of men we should be expecting all the others to live up to.
I live in New York, but I've lived abroad in a couple of different places over the past few years and have definitely found men (and people in general) a lot more accepting and open in places where the Catholic Church hasn't been able to embed itself into the moral fabric of society.
I dont think you and I are going to agree. I feel like authenticity firstly would come from having her own version of feminism/sexuality rather than just copying vibe of her friend Ruthyruby. I would see that as authentic from her. Its not necessarily about the photo, its about it being inauthentic to her. In my opinion.
I dont think that its fair to say "especially in ireland". It happens everywhere. And some women would be uncomfortable if their man was "performing" the same way.
I think the narrative about ireland being judgemental and Catholic based is too simplistic, and just serves to provide expats with reasons to consider themselves better than the people at home. I have lived abroad, and did not find a huge difference in attitudes towards women etc. Social norms exist on a spectrum and to consider the Catholic Church to ne embedded in society, still, again simplifies the situation.
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Probably not, but what I took issue with really wasn't the inauthenticity thing, it was perpetuating the idea that a woman sharing her body for others to see is something to be laughed at or ashamed of. It's fine to dislike her photo because it's inauthentic, it's another thing to dislike it because it's shameful.
And sure it happens everywhere but having spent most of my life in Ireland I can safely say I've witnessed/experienced it a lot more there than in other western non-Catholic countries, but that's just my experience. I also definitely don't consider myself better just because I don't live in Ireland anymore, but as a country, we have a history of judging women who are seen as overtly sexual or who don't conform to societal norms and it's something I didn't enjoy and is part of my reasons for leaving. It's definitely getting better, but it's not where it needs to be yet.
Anyway, back to Tara, does anyone know where she said she was moving out of her home house? Such a strange thing to do if the whole point of being home was to be with her family.
That's fair enough, I agree with some of your points, Ireland definitely was a place where shame was thrust upon women for being outside of what society deemed acceptable, and it is a legacy we have to acknowledge and deal with, I just think that society has improved significantly, particularly with the younger generations. Let's leave it there
She said on her story that the aesthetic was difficult for her, or something to that effect, and mentioned that she would be moving out soon because she finds it difficult to work and be creative in the house. I think she was referring to living alongside people again, as opposed to the aesthetic being the main issue to be fair, but it does seem ridiculous moving out when the point of being home is to be with her parents. I cant imagine its a busy house considering she is an only child.
She will likely stay until end of April or may, cos she out the Brooklyn loft up until then.
Id be interested to see if she continues to break the rules once she lives away from her parents. Moving out now would effectively mean she cant see them until March with the current restrictions in place
Of course she will break the covid rules 
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I couldn't give a fk that she posted a partially nude pic. I barely even noticed that. It's her insta she can do what she wants.
.I couldn't give a fk that she posted a partially nude pic. I barely even noticed that. It's her insta she can do what she wants.
She has a chip on her shoulder...singling our Irish people as having small town mindsets..wow really you have nothing better to talk about other than bash your own people. All over a pic she posted that wasn’t even a big deal. And then disregarding her parents house online too. That’s not very nice esp for a grown woman.
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^ I know right? It's not like she got any backlash for the pic, why is she making a big deal out of it? Nobody gives a tit!
She used it as an excuse to just attack for whatever reason...taking about your parents house annoys me...I wonder where will she end up when she grows up....oh wait a minute..never mind
I dont understand the aesthetic thing at all. Her aesthetic is basically all white. Its not groundbreaking. I like the loft, but also find it so impractical. I think it would have been nicer if she never pained the floor. And the eating in the bed genuinely raises my anxiety. Imagine the crumbs!
To me that nude pic looks as ridiculous as a bloke posing naked with a towel on his head and cupping his genitals would 
Lol I'm "in a visual field myself" as well and I don't find it very artistic at all really. It's just another generic dime a dozen insta nude. Definitely don't see what's so empowering about it?
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As someone with enormous natural boobs and a smaller waist if I was to pose like this it would be viewed as porn and x-rated or like a Kardashian wannabe! In celebration of pancake Tuesday Tara and all the other small flat chested girls don't know how lucky they have it
Yeah that's actually insane to leave when it means she potentially can't spend any more time with them. Why she couldn't suck it up for a few more months is beyond me. The house looks absolutely grand to me! Surely if she was as creative as she makes out she'd be able to work with what she has. I do think she really relies on the backdrop of NYC and her loft to make her content seem better than it actually is.