TarMar (Irish blogger living in NYC)

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I’d be worried with her size following someone would report her? Or backlash , seems very brazen and a weird choice for someone whose income depends on public opinion of her
 
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I’d be worried with her size following someone would report her? Or backlash , seems very brazen and a weird choice for someone whose income depends on public opinion of her
She doesn’t care! I messaged her last time to ask was living with Ruth ruby/guy who I assume is her new boyfriend because if not it was disappointing to see her so blatantly and brazenly break the rules by being with them - I did message it in a nice way though as I gave her the benefit of the doubt that they might actually be staying together. But no, just socialising and she was so passive aggressive about it, sending me screen shots of info on exercising and that you’re allowed meet another household when exercising. Like sure, but does going for a wander around town, to coffee shops and to take photos count as exercise? Like she clearly couldn’t care less and it is disappointing as I did really like her!
 
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She replied to that comment, if they DM'd her she would tell them why she was there 🙄 it would want to be a fairly good excuse...
Aye I saw that! As if. I’ve messaged her multiple times on my proper account over the years and she has NEVER responded. What could her excuse be, anyway?
 
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Aye I saw that! As if. I’ve messaged her multiple times on my proper account over the years and she has NEVER responded. What could her excuse be, anyway?
I know, she thinks she is too good to respond to anyone.

There really is no excuse whatsoever. I think that's why she passively aggressive in responding to the comment, deflection at its finest.
 
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Said she only responds to ‘nice and normal’ comments and, as they always do, criticised me for hiding behind a fake account, as if that negates the thing she’s being called out for. What a smug loser she’s become.

*makes it really really obvious that her and her boyfriend have broken up, says please stop asking her about it as she likes to keep her private life private* two minutes into her new video “SO ME AND EDELLE ARE SINGLE”
 
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Tara and Ruth must deem their content creating and capturing vibes as essential work and therefore have no regard for guidelines. They're so far above it. I actually did like both girls but now they've shown what they really are, two absolute airheads.
 
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Tara and Ruth must deem their content creating and capturing vibes as essential work and therefore have no regard for guidelines. They're so far above it. I actually did like both girls but now they've shown what they really are, two absolute airheads.
I used to like Tara a lot, when she first moved and actually worked in New York. It seemed exciting and she seemed happy.

Then, work slowed down, and it became a montage of coffee shops she frequents, her vlogs could be shot anywhere at any time, there is no need for her to be in New York.

Once she started hanging out with ruthyruby she changed entirely. With ruthyruby it seems authentic, I wouldn't be a fan, but she has an alternative edge about her. Tara, instead of being her authentic self, emulates and copies whoever is close to her. The fact that her content pretty much mirrors ruthyruby is no coincidence.
 
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Card shuffling, how riveting. She really has nothing going on for her, does she? Mundane
 
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I agree with a lot of things you guys are saying, used to love her and her chill vibes but omg she is so smug she is unwatchable, she has become so so conceited.

OT but her ex is on tinder and has matched with a number of friends and I haha!

ETA I only swiped right bc I recognised him... not my cup of tea lol
 
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I agree with a lot of things you guys are saying, used to love her and her chill vibes but omg she is so smug she is unwatchable, she has become so so conceited.

OT but her ex is on tinder and has matched with a number of friends and I haha!

ETA I only swiped right bc I recognised him... not my cup of tea lol
He actually seemed like a nice guy. He seemed to want nothing to do with her social media, which I thought was refreshing. She spoke in her latest video about how she was more ambitious than her ex and it caused issues in their relationship. I disagree, he flew to New York after getting a masters in whatever he did. She has zero ambition, other than to flog bullshit. Would love to know what her lifelong goal is, and how she thinks her ambition outweighs someone who actually worked hard to achieve what they got, and still wanted to make his own way in New York rather than using her for money etc
 
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She might want to start working on that ambition as she's in her late twenties with nothing much achieved so far. She seems to be coasting along in life, sipping her iced coffees. No good being ambitious if you've no drive or work ethic to make it happen.
 
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Yeah she's not really ambitious. I've followed her for years and years and she was always useless at time management etc. Staying up late to get things done instead of working consistently effectively and getting up early. Just an example. She is definitely lacking in basic management and business skills. No point being ambitious if you ain't gonna work to give yourself the right tools.

I don't even like her style anymore. Her style was better before she started copying Ruth Ruby. That Ruth Ruby has no style at all imo. The arse shots etc are pure cringe.

I'd say by saying her ex wasn't ambitious he probably just didn't covet the same vapid flashy lifestyle as Tara. He seemed like a fairly straight forward person. He must have been somewhat ambitious to get qualified in architecture, thats no easy feat. Define ambition 😂. Does ambition just = being materialistic for Tara?

I haven't watched her latest video. Have seen the thumbnail and I can only imagine the absolute shite she talks in that.
 
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Yeah she's not really ambitious. I've followed her for years and years and she was always useless at time management etc. Staying up late to get things done instead of working consistently effectively and getting up early. Just an example. She is definitely lacking in basic management and business skills. No point being ambitious if you ain't gonna work to give yourself the right tools.

I don't even like her style anymore. Her style was better before she started copying Ruth Ruby. That Ruth Ruby has no style at all imo. The arse shots etc are pure cringe.

I'd say by saying her ex wasn't ambitious he probably just didn't covet the same vapid flashy lifestyle as Tara. He seemed like a fairly straight forward person. He must have been somewhat ambitious to get qualified in architecture, thats no easy feat. Define ambition 😂. Does ambition just = being materialistic for Tara?

I haven't watched her latest video. Have seen the thumbnail and I can only imagine the absolute shite she talks in that.
Well to start, her new video begins with her rationalising her constant cutting across of the other girl there by saying thats what irish people do.


No Tara, ur just so self absorbed that you can't imagine going 1 minute without hearing your own voice. Why even have the guest there? Shes there for decoration...
 
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Lol who does she think she is saying she has “major aesthetic issues” with everything in her parents house 😂😂 she says she’s moving out i wonder what’s the story with that
 
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