I've never, thank god, had a child under long term hospital care but I'm damn sure I wouldn't just be swanning in and out for "visits". He's your bleeping son Jodie, not great aunt Jeannie down the road that you check in on daily to make sure shes not fell down the stairs and is lying in a crumpled heap, then go about your day again. Yes, there's times you'll need to pop to the town, or commitments you can't get out of, but predominantly my life would be revolving around being at the hospital with my wee boy. Ir certainly wouldn't be seeing who's free to go and "visit" him so I didn't have to. She's using the hospital and nurses as free babysitters that allow her to have her easy life and freedom again.
Shes loving him being in there. Freedom, money, attention and fame for her. It's ALWAYS about her.
Jodie, go and bleeping show your son some love