Talia Oatway & Aaron Chalmers #18 shes with buspass Ben in the sheets, here comes Aaron with receipts

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stargirl23

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Nadja

It genuinely concerns me how she shows little to no emotion when talking about her SON, but then is buzzing and all smiles talking about getting needles in her face!!

She's not right in the head, she's so cold and detached from that poor boy.
 
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Bb12

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Talia sneaks off for a bath
Still reeks of desperation and mouldy ass
 
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Elmoo

She admits he has low immune system and requires hospitalization for coughs and colds. Yet still parades him everywhere, albeit under cover, and let’s the poorly boys/nanny slobber all over him
 
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silent watcher/reader

Elmoo said:
She admits he has low immune system and requires hospitalization for coughs and colds. Yet still parades him everywhere, albeit under cover, and let’s the poorly boys/nanny slobber all over him
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She even said any cold or cough and she has to take him in to hospital, she was saying for days he had a bit of a cold and had to suction him for 2 nights in a row… but once again the community nurse had to tell her to get him seen to!!
 
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Scottishlassie🤢

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Who in their right minds does a tiktok on suctioning of a poorly baby... the attention seeking is just too much now
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Tiktok can be brutal at the best of times, if she pops up on the FY page folk will get rattled into her if they check her insta out & see what she's really like. She will use any platform for attention and sympathy all the while she's an emotionless arseholes who doesn't give a shit!! Also the quotes and stuff she's posting,, she's either reading here or people are messaging her getting tore into her.... But wee won't here about they messages eh Talia hun! Just the "loads of DMs" you don't get about the "not an ads"
 
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s.m123

Talia I’m tired this rub my eyes that poor me, erm you mean fuck you? your baby is struggling to breathe which he needs to be able to do to keep him alive?!?! Shut the f up about being tired. Absolute bitch.
 
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Vonnie_93

New here & probably definitely outing myself but just need to vent my actual rage.
When she was pregnant the third time she was asking for unusual names, I didn’t really know her but I did in fact comment my son’s name. The only person to comment said name and now she’s absolutely butchered my kids name. If I hear Mad Dog one more time - I might self combust.
 
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livelaughlou

Social services absolutely will not get involved and I think Aaron wants to speak to the other kids dad as it sounds like talia has cut them both off from seeing their children and he wants to go for it “justice for fathers” style.
At the end of the day, the kids are fed, washed and warm and they’re being sent to school/nursery when needed. She’s taking Oakley for his medical appts and despite what we know via her various videos, she will be telling the nurses she needs to get back to see the other kids and run errands etc. they won’t criticise her for leaving as they do encourage parents to rest (she just takes the piss).
she’s a dodgy fucker, who is caught up in the world of sick child social media (aka Ashley cain syndrome) and she’s a very selfish and bizarre person, but from a SS standpoint there is nothing for them to go on.
Aaron on the other hand will have a case for getting some sort of custody, but expect her to play dirty and involve a claim of DV to keep him at arms length.
 
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sunflow3r_

Talias face has she tagged the aesthetician to avoid her/get her reported to the police her face is criminal. I don’t want to say it but she looks disfigured I’ve never seen anyone with filler like that
 
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brownstone



Can't imagine posting (not) ads while your child is in a hospital bed but here we are
 
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Panda1990xo

Are people forgetting medical neglect is real. If the hospital were to keep flagging her to social services they may well get involved, and so they should! If it wasn't for that community nurse popping in every so often something seriously would have happened to that poor baby by now.
 
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Larson Croft

I’m confused. I’m new to this woman. Is her kid called mad dog or yours?
 
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Smol52



Oh it definitely is a thing but only those medical professionals can identify if it’s medical neglect and refer in, or like a previous poster said she may well have one allocated to Oakley under the children with disabilities team.

Unfortunately children social care is massively under funded which has meant threshold for intervention is getting Higher and each local authority has it on threshold criteria (also known as continuum of need), so a social worker may well want to help a family and the family may fall on level 2/3 of the continuum of need but the reality is now that for a lot of local authority’s a family who fall on level 2/3 don’t meet the criteria for statutory intervention from CSC, but they will be sign posted if appropriate.

You also have the issue of consent for familys that may meet the criteria but not for immediate child protection concerns and if they don’t consent to assessment or support the local authority in most cases can’t over ride it.

As for removing children… the evidence and threshold you have to have to do that is understandably extremely hard. Also when a local authority applies to remove a child they have to be evidence significant and imminent harm… it isn’t the social workers word against the parents. And it is also a judge who makes the final rescission and there is an idependant guardian involved who provides recommendations.


Sorry for the lengthy post and to derail, but it really infuriates me when people bash social services and make out they have not supported a family or removed a child on hardly any evidence. Instead of criticising go to your local MP and raise the issue of local authorities being under funded.
 
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