Dunno if it’s just that she’s struggling with the age that ocean is now but all Syd seems to do lately is complain about her doing normal baby things
I don’t think being a mum has turned out the way she thought it would. I think she thought having a baby would be a lot easier than it is and that Ocean would be more like a prop that she could dress up , take photos of , use her for attention and then the rest of the time Ocean would be asleep or it just wouldn’t require much work to take care her so I think she’s shocked at how much responsibility and work is involved cause like you said all she does is complain about everything Ocean does and needs but what Ocean is doing is normal baby things and also Syd seems to forget the reason Ocean exists is because of her and Cas they chose to bring her into this world so they knew what they were signing up for being a parent.
I think Syd seems fed up and irritated by Ocean at times and a child changes your life in certain ways which I don’t think Syd is happy about how those changes cause all she does is moan about it and she sounds so selfish all the time. I don’t think it was the right time for her to have a baby and I know people say there’s never a perfect time but if you’re going to have a child you have to know you are ready to be selfless and take on a lot of responsibility which is something Syd seems annoyed about having to do. If she wanted a life going on holidays all the time and not having to be responsible for a child then she shouldn’t of had a baby. I understand being a parent isn’t always easy and of course there’ll be moments when a mum gets overwhelmed or stressed or tired that’s natural cause nobody is perfect everyone has those days but taking out your irritation on a baby blaming the baby for being a baby is so selfish and crazy because the baby is innocent.
I think she lacks patience but if you decide to have a baby you have got to be ready to be patient and I don’t think she was ready for a baby in her life right now cause I think she still had a lot of growing up and maturing to do. Other women her age are mentally ready for a baby so it’s nothing about her age it’s just I think she was so focused on the things like picking a name , getting baby clothes , planning insta posts she could have of the baby and she was caught up in the influencer world of seeing her friends or people she knows posing with their babies and I think she wanted that but she didn’t think about that a baby isn’t a prop it’s a huge responsibility to be a parent and yeah nobody can ever be fully prepared for a baby you learn things and adapt as time passes by but common sense would tell you having a baby is going to require a lot of your time and patience.
I know she’s spoke before in vlogs about fertility and being worried about if she didn’t have a child now she might not ever have one but I personally don’t think fertility issues was her only reason for wanting a baby , I think she had other reasons too for wanting a baby but they were the wrong selfish kind of reasons which is why she isn’t very maternal in my opinion from what I’ve seen and seems fed up of taking care of a baby. I’m not saying Ocean isn’t loved or taken care of but the way Syd talks to her and talks about her I find it strange like she’s trying to make a baby feel bad and feel guilty for being a baby and depending on her.
could have made a bit more effort with her hair
my little girl is 10 months and yes there are some days where she's being an absolute pain but I'd never complain about her on the internet or to thousands of strangers