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Thank you! I hope you are ok.sending you all the love in the world! Well done for being so strong to do it! Look after yourself too! Messaged me if you ever want a friendly chat
So I was speaking to a guy for five years long story short 2 years of that five years he was dating/ had a girlfriend and was still sexting me I found the girlfriend and told her everything.
He blocked me on everything and they stayed together. Last September he unblocked me 5 months after I snitched on him. I waited a couple of days thought this was weird and then messaged him so he knew I noticed what he done he instantly blocked me after.
Yesterday he unblocked me again but hasn’t messaged me. My friends done some fbi work and noticed they’re still together but she’s moving in with him this month (they’re long distance)
So I’m quite confused why’s he unblocked me again. Like I don’t want to block him because then he’ll know that I noticed he’s unblocked me but I can’t see it being the girlfriend that’s done it because I know his routine (been the same for years)
He blocked me on everything and they stayed together. Last September he unblocked me 5 months after I snitched on him. I waited a couple of days thought this was weird and then messaged him so he knew I noticed what he done he instantly blocked me after.
Yesterday he unblocked me again but hasn’t messaged me. My friends done some fbi work and noticed they’re still together but she’s moving in with him this month (they’re long distance)
So I’m quite confused why’s he unblocked me again. Like I don’t want to block him because then he’ll know that I noticed he’s unblocked me but I can’t see it being the girlfriend that’s done it because I know his routine (been the same for years)
Could it a glitch in the app? Or he could be occasionally resetting settings by deleting apps and reinstalling them. Could also be so he can check out your profile and forgets to block again? I used to do that on Facebook with an abusive ex because once I ran into him in a gallery of the new country I moved to and I was terrified. I did it so I could see where his location was every few months for a year or two because he told me when he ran into me that he was thinking of moving to my new city.
Honestly I wouldn’t let it occupy your mind but I know that’s so much easier said than done. If you block him usually you wouldn’t notice him unblocking you in the future?
I don’t think it’ll be a glinch on the app but he would of had to scroll 12 months worth of messages to get to ours or go through a bunch of names in his contacts to get to mine.
I would block him but I don’t want him to notice I got on to him unblocking me. As my mate said it’s weird he does this a couple days before his girlfriend moves in with him
What app is this btw? It seems strange, if it’s a chat app, he’s unblocked you to what end? So you can message each other but previously when you messaged him he reblocked you ? Maybe it’s his way of getting an ego boost. They’re moving in and he is opening the doors for you to contact him. He sounds very toxic. He’s playing games.
Yeah it was WhatsApp. This is what I don’t understand why unblock me but not message me. He did it around the same time last year but when he was in work he would block and unblock when he finished until I messaged and then he blocked me and hasn’t unblocked me till yesterday
My mate looked on his girlfriends Instagram to see if they broke up or not so we can work out why he’s unblocked me and she put a post saying she can’t wait to be with him everyday because she’s moving in with him this month (they’re long distance) so why now
When they’re gonna be in each other’s pockets it’s strange but guess least I know I made an impact to be on his mind still I supposeHe’s a odd lad, doesn’t want to actually speak to you, just wants to know he is still occupying your mind and heart. The fact he reblocked you as soon as you did reach out last time speaks to that.Yeah it was WhatsApp. This is what I don’t understand why unblock me but not message me. He did it around the same time last year but when he was in work he would block and unblock when he finished until I messaged and then he blocked me and hasn’t unblocked me till yesterday
My mate looked on his girlfriends Instagram to see if they broke up or not so we can work out why he’s unblocked me and she put a post saying she can’t wait to be with him everyday because she’s moving in with him this month (they’re long distance) so why now
I know you don’t want him to see you’ve blocked him but I wouldn’t care what this oddball thinks, I’d just want to move on. I’m surprised you didn’t block him when the tit hit the fan!
Just delete him? So that you can’t see anything he does? I wouldn’t even think about him or msg him or anything. You don’t need someone who will sext you whilst he has a girlfriend.
I’d block him personally and erase from your memory
To be fair when I checked last time when I messaged him (all I messaged was “eh) I noticed he just went on a weekend away with his girlfriend. Which I find odd to even think of unblocking me just before that.
I’m weird myself like I just had a feeling since May this year that something like this would happen and I just needed to prove to myself that am right/wrong over this feeling. I just don’t get why unblock if you’re not gonna message
He doesn’t sext me since I found out about his girlfriend and when I found out about her I told her. I don’t bother with him. I just haven’t blocked him because I needed to know if my weird feeling that it would happen was right since I’ve had this feeling for a while
@Blondeangel2515 he’s doing it to get your attention!! Don’t give in. I’ve been there. He’s playing games. Let him and his gf get on with. Don’t cave!!
Not gonna cave, not gonna message like why would I after last time like it’s been over a year and why unblock me but not message that’s what I don’t understand
He’s lucky I was scrolling my messages to see if someone’s had their baby yet otherwise I wouldn’t of noticed anywayAlso just to add he does look really rough in his display picture and I think all attraction to him has actually fade away
He’ll wonder why you haven’t taken the bait 🥲Not gonna cave, not gonna message like why would I after last time like it’s been over a year and why unblock me but not message that’s what I don’t understand
Also just to add he does look really rough in his display picture and I think all attraction to him has actually fade away
Hopefully he’ll use common sense and realise he’s way down my messages so would need to message first to get my attention (I’ll still blank him) not gonna block till he messages
He may not message at all…
That’s fine I’ll rather that
Means he’s wasted his time unblocking me for no reasonMy family just not giving a tit at all about me.
Its my birthday later this month, and my mum just messaged me to say she's transfered me some money now because she's on holiday for my birthday so she will "probably forget on the day". Cheers thanks makes me feel great.
Last year was a big birthday, I spent all day in hospital on my own as had two appointments. Nobody arranged to see me and my mum had basically double booked herself for the weekend. So last minute was like oh well you can join us for a carvery if you like but its with my husbands family. It was my 30th birthday ffs.
My dad lives on the other side of the world and I usually don't get any contact from him.
My freinds are all busy with there own loves, quite rightly we are all at an age where we have children.
Just feel very alone and my own family don't care at all. Makes me feel like tit honestly.
Only saving grace is hubby and my children
Its my birthday later this month, and my mum just messaged me to say she's transfered me some money now because she's on holiday for my birthday so she will "probably forget on the day". Cheers thanks makes me feel great.
Last year was a big birthday, I spent all day in hospital on my own as had two appointments. Nobody arranged to see me and my mum had basically double booked herself for the weekend. So last minute was like oh well you can join us for a carvery if you like but its with my husbands family. It was my 30th birthday ffs.
My dad lives on the other side of the world and I usually don't get any contact from him.
My freinds are all busy with there own loves, quite rightly we are all at an age where we have children.
Just feel very alone and my own family don't care at all. Makes me feel like tit honestly.
Only saving grace is hubby and my children
this feels like a kind of facetious vent after some of the things others have been through, but i really need to vent right now!! i live abroad and my inm laws have been staying with us for 2 weeks. we don't have any spare room so i have been sleeping on the (very much not meant for long term use) sofa bed with my husband for 2 weeks now, while also working from home (i start at 7am some days) and looking after my 7 year old who has been unwell. i've also needed antibiotics for an infection and am only just starting to feel well now. husband and i are both exhausted from the poor sleep and we have been bickering loads, i'm just at the end of my tether with the whole thing. my MiL is sort of sulking at me about something right now and i wish i could just make them disappear!! i really need my space, my bedroom is my sanctuary and the simplest thing like getting dressed in the morning or getting in our one bathroom for a shower has been so dificult with 5 people in this little flat. they have only babysat for us once so its not even like we have had a lot of us time. my mum has been to visit but for a maximum of 4 nights and she always sleeps in my daughters room, i've never asked my husband to sleep on the sofa while he's working etc. tbh i am also p'd off with my husband for allowing them to come and stay for 2 weeks.
i want my life back!!
i want my life back!!
Is anyone else having problems accessing help from their doctors? Our local GPs surgery used to be good, but has gone downhill in recent years since they lost loads of staff in a short space of time. They brought in temporary staff from other places because there were literally no doctors and the nurses had to deal with everything. There's one receptionist who's very gatekeeper-y, if that makes sense. She's really rude and obstructive, and she never seems to pass messages on. Once I had to cancel an appointment, but got a phone call from the GP because she hadn't told him about the cancellation.
Also, the new GP is so dismissive and it's frustrating. I went back to the doctors twice due to kidney pains and blood in urine, but she ignored it because my urine samples came back normal. When I told her about the strange colour, she just said that it might be period-related. Then I was prescribed antibiotics that I didn't need and ended up taking myself to A&E in the middle of the night where I was finally diagnosed with kidney stones.
I hate feeling like the doctors don't believe what I'm saying.
It's especially bad for mental health. I've been on two types of medication, but it's been about 3 years since anyone's checked up on anything. When they first prescribed the anti-anxiety drug they gave me 6x the usual dose by mistake. Last week I stopped the antidepressant (not cold turkey - I reduced it gradually) and I've been having severe panic attacks that might be connected to that, so I want to talk to them about it. Don't feel very hopeful though.
Also, the new GP is so dismissive and it's frustrating. I went back to the doctors twice due to kidney pains and blood in urine, but she ignored it because my urine samples came back normal. When I told her about the strange colour, she just said that it might be period-related. Then I was prescribed antibiotics that I didn't need and ended up taking myself to A&E in the middle of the night where I was finally diagnosed with kidney stones.
I hate feeling like the doctors don't believe what I'm saying.It's especially bad for mental health. I've been on two types of medication, but it's been about 3 years since anyone's checked up on anything. When they first prescribed the anti-anxiety drug they gave me 6x the usual dose by mistake. Last week I stopped the antidepressant (not cold turkey - I reduced it gradually) and I've been having severe panic attacks that might be connected to that, so I want to talk to them about it. Don't feel very hopeful though.
This is so stupid and pathetic but i hope I feel better when I get it off my chest.
i impulse ordered something from Amazon yesterday with next day delivery (on a gift card that’s been sitting in my purse for a year). Got up this morning, decided I didn’t want it and cancelled it. Now I feel really guilty cause people work hard to process and deliver stuff through the night in probably not great conditions for me to decide on a whim I don’t want it. I know it sounds so stupid to be upset about it but I feel terrible
i impulse ordered something from Amazon yesterday with next day delivery (on a gift card that’s been sitting in my purse for a year). Got up this morning, decided I didn’t want it and cancelled it. Now I feel really guilty cause people work hard to process and deliver stuff through the night in probably not great conditions for me to decide on a whim I don’t want it. I know it sounds so stupid to be upset about it but I feel terrible
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