I do agree that discussion or naming of family members when she clearly goes to an effort to keep that part of her life private is not on. And I think slating anybody for their personal physical appearance (not the clothes they wear) is cruel and unnecessary.
That being said, I feel like telling everyone that some members pictures have been shared and some members have been called names is a pure and simple scare tactic. It’s impossible to say “come to Patreon, it won’t happen there”. All of these sites - here, there, FB, Instagram, all of them - are The Internet. And there will always be screen grabbers on the Internet. You will never be able to prevent that happening. You will never be able to keep every picture secure. I bloody hate it but it’s just not the way the world works any more when everything is online. SBS can try to achieve that with this move but I don’t see it working. Sorry.