Someone has commented on her pic saying Caben looks like a blend of Joe and he's such a good Dad and Steph has replied to the comment with love heartsI feel for Caben so badly. The latest caption “family time” is precisely the issue she has. He isn’t the bairns dad, he’s a boyfriend she’s had for 4 months. It’s too much too soon and when they get scared and run away it’s harder for him to understand every time. He’ll eventually start wondering what he’s doing to push them away and it’ll damage him.