We are all different I do appreciate that but with my third baby I was doing it alone, already had the two older ones who were thankfully just about old enough they could entertain themselves and even whip up lunch and drinks etc for themselves if I was busy with the baby. Staceys two older one’s seem the same sort of age my two were when bubba came along. I was quite often jumping in the bath at midnight just for a quick wash of my pits and bits. I also took advantage of any visitor I had and asked them to watch baby while I washed my hair, I even asked the HV once if I could quickly wash my hair and she obliged knowing my situation. Stacey has help around her.... her Mum, Joe, sister and lets face it she 100% has a cleaner and she could afford a sitter if she needed an hour for some self care. Stacey not washing or changing her clothes is 100% sheer laziness and I don’t know how Joe can touch her tbh. I hate the excuse of I’m too busy... no luv that excuse is fine every so often if tiredness really does overcome you but she goes days at a time without washing

. It’s obvious from her stories when she goes to bed in her clothes and make up and then she’s up early and out the door day after day, you can see she hasn’t fitted in a wash the minger