Sophie Stanbury - ex SIL of CS and oh so busy busy! #1

[Pradalova]

I wonder if she has a mild learning disability. How does it even pan out that the school chef prepares christmas lunch for you? The weird speech pattern. The constant need to update instagram about nothing. The lack of self care comment. Something's not right.

 

[Renegadedancer]

But everything is ok in the world as she has been #gifted some Christmas goodies from Harvey Nichols.

 

[willawallawooh]

Doing the back to school shopping in Harrods - how relatable(!)

 

[Pradalova]

Lol - she's been so busy on projects and listed her day BUT I STILL MANAGED A PILATES CLASS AT BAMFORD.

Comical.

 

[JulesWake]

She can’t read tattle. She’s far too busy.

Maybe that's why she's so busy...(reading Tattle)

 

[beautyblogger123]

Selfishness imo and the desire to live child and hassle free.
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I’d imagine she feels like the victim in her failed marriage and sees boarding as something which will set her free

To be fair, I’d rather board than live with her.
Routine, living with friends, and not just bobbing about from one pub lunch to the next is far preferable- plus the stability and sense of place school gives is incredibly positive.
I think the younger one would actually benefit from boarding - it’s not all cold showers and gruel anymore.

 

[Renegadedancer]

But where is the cape . That collaboration bombed out didn’t it . Never mind she’s super busy playing at being super busy in the super cuntreeee on her super dog walk.

 

[JulesWake]

I feel her pain, she loved that doggie and I would be devastated if anything happened to mine . They are with you though all the tough times and I am sure Sophie had plenty of them. That is why I followed her , she seemed genuine and was trying to find her way after her divorce.

Lost my precious Cockapoo a few months ago, unexpectedly. She was totally okay during the day & less than 24hrs later had to be rushed to Emerg & put down. The pain for me was paralysing. Still is. Learning to live with the loss of our pets, but the suffering that follows is horrendous. Sorry for adding the above, as I don't like going off track. Wanted to say I totally relate to what Sophie must be going through, or anyone here who has lost a fur baby. The grief is hideous yet the bond we've built with our precious animals can never be broken.

 

[Gemsquash22]

For someone constantly so busy she’s always playing catch up because she’s behind. A 75 minute commute each each way is hardly hardcore a couple of times a week. I’m not sure she knows the full extent of busy.

If she cut out the daily workouts before she actually starts work at about mid day she’d have plenty of time

 

[ella1979]

If I drank a shot every time she said cosy I’d be permanently sozzled !

 

[Nancy Knows]

She’s been skint for years, she was looking for the big ticket but married someone with no money & a party lifestyle. She did look after the boys when they split but she’s a vapid social climber & forever chasing people who can “offer” her something (usually a holiday) - trying to score at the school gates who has what & how she can a) get an invite b) monetise for her own gain.

She smokes and has a fondness of the white marching powder which is how she keeps thin (many nights at Chiltern Firehouse) with a very wrong crowd.

She lives in a tiny London house South of the River - in the suburbs & is looking for her next gravy train / victim. Grandparents Stanbury (his parents) pay the school fees. It’s tragic and she’s tragic but VERY calculating. I hope this latest man works her out soon - unfortunately not uncommon behaviour for these types of London women. Trash

 

[Renegadedancer]

Didn’t realise both are boarding, I wonder why the massive change. I guess her end game is a rich husband and a life in the Cotswolds. She’s very high maintenance.

 

[Gemsquash22]

She definitely reads Tattle, she mentioned today that she was wearing skinny jeans and she knows people think her skinny jeans are so out and dated. Now if she can just read the bits about prioritising her boys happiness over living this show off life in the cuntreee maybe things would start to improve for her. She seemed so down to earth and I used to enjoy her stories when she first lived in Barnes with her boys. It feels like a completely different life she used to live.

 

[Pradalova]

Her reaction to picking her sons up has really upset me . She has changed beyond recognition. She is obsessed with a man , who clearly is a lot less interested in her . She has chosen him, above her boys and I genuinely didn’t except that of her. She is so desperate for a certain lifestyle that she will stop at nothing to cling on to it . I have a partner who isn’t the father of my children & one of the things I love most about him, is he knows my children come first . Mark seems totally disinterested in her children and seems to be away a lot . She hasn’t seen the children this weekend & she is still resentful of having to get them from London . It’s pathetic actually .

I thought the same earlier. The frustration in her voice. Having to cancel her "meetings" then try and qualify it at the end about children coming first. it was her choice to move to the cuntree in a faux cuntree lifestyle.

 

[Renegadedancer]

She definitely reads Tattle, she mentioned today that she was wearing skinny jeans and she knows people think her skinny jeans are so out and dated. Now if she can just read the bits about prioritising her boys happiness over living this show off life in the cuntreee maybe things would start to improve for her. She seemed so down to earth and I used to enjoy her stories when she first lived in Barnes with her boys. It feels like a completely different life she used to live.

She can’t read tattle. She’s far too busy.

 

[Pradalova]

Evening Team! just jumping on and i am really sorry that I didn't jump on for a couple of hours but I am SO BUSY and worked late and I need to be more busy before my bath!

Agree with all of the above but i can't unfollow. why? its a car crash. Why does she think anyone is buying it?

 

[house10]

I think the rented cottage is coming to a close and she & the extra from the office ( ©️Nancy Knows) will be moving into a property that he has purchased. She will spend hours “ doing it up” . The engagement is imminent, the eldest son will be with has Father 90% of time when not at school and youngest who is neurodivergent will be shackling . And prevent her fully embracing her new life !!! The HRT & Viagra in that household must be enough to keep Glaxo afloat .

 

[90sGal]

Happy Monday
Hope you all had a super weekend
Weather was super and we had a cosy supper out on the lawn
Here are the bloomers I tried to flog last year having another outing 🫢

 

[Squidink]

Sophie seems to be suffering some sort of arrested development if she thinks her boys are loving having the garden and the swing to play on. They are closer to 13 than 3 - well past play pools and sand pits in the garden! Also I’ve realised that along with her sing song voice her daily updates are so annoying as she sounds like a dull friend leaving a voice note listing off all the things they’ve been up to. Walked the dog, pub lunch, lovely supper …

 

[Renegadedancer]

Todays reel telling us how she manifested this to happen. I bet she did. She manifested a rich man that would buy her the country home she wants. Her boys shipped off to boarding school so mummy can live her out her dream. Dalysford/Bamford looks soulless and she will miss her posh coffees, lunches, shops, friends and beauty treatments and the hustle and bustle she’s used to. There are only so many dog walks and farm shops you can do before boredom sets in. She does grate on me at times but I wish her well and hope it’s the happy life for all of them, her boys included. I wonder what freebies she will be trying to get , unless she leaves the discounted make up and free car wash deals behind .