Sofie Hagen

[Awkward_Somber]

Exactly, she should have got a cat if she wanted a pet to just lie on the sofa with

We have 2 cats and we exercise them (make sure they go out in the garden and have lots of toys to play with inside) and give them far more routine than Sofie does for her dog.

It makes me so sad that she won't give Hank a better life. Even if she can't be arsed at least send him to a dog walker once or twice a week.

I was also thinking about how she did ended up getting people to pay for Hank's vet treatment. It was so manipulative.

 

[Jockmcgraw]

The irony of Sofie retweeting this

 

[Blahblah93]

When she said she has hardly been out since March, does that mean the dog never gets a walk?

 

[Bohemiskeye]

The irony being, she ends the post about how she will fuck up, get it wrong and that and it’s good to chat about such topics. Yet, she won’t afford that to anyone she disagrees with and labels them Nazis or bigots in the process. One rule for you ay Sofie

With people like Sofie I wonder half the time whether what they actually say is true. She seems incredibly narcissistic, self-centred and lacks any accountability. Trauma seems to be used so regularly as a catch all excuse for her poor behaviour rather than any acknowledgement of what was done wrong and how she can learn from it.

Listening to her on podcasts - TGF, MOH, and Secret dinosaur- I felt she often told stories that were simply not true….

 

[Not_A_Troll]

I imagine it would be incredibly hard work being her friend

 

[becky's artex ceiling]

I honestly think it’s trolling and fishing for being called out tbh! Sofie obviously gets deep pleasure (somehow) from both angrily calling others out and angrily obsessing over nuances of being gently corrected by the fanzzzzz.

I wouldn’t mind so much except the people she vents at are literally the people paying for shows and funding Sofie’s cab journeys and expensive tech via Patreon!

 

[klarigold]

Wow
I think that people obviously should have the choice about how they eat/live but it's so cruel to animals.
My friends dog actually hates walks and will hide up when you get her lead but they still encourage her to go out. Hank seems to be constantly looking out of the window and is clearly interested in going out. Its heartbreaking

I also really think some fresh air and exercise (walking Hank) would be beneficial to Sofie's mental health.

Yeah totally. He clearly is fascinated by everything in her garden because he's desperate to be out there. So frustrating that she took him for one walk and decided he didn't like it/ it wasn't worth it because he wasn't walking well and wanted to stop and smell things. That's what dogs do when they haven't been walked before! That's why you have to train them!!

 

[Not_A_Troll]

That poor dog has gone from never being alone to being left for 6 hours!

 

[queenofsheba1234]

I don’t think sofie is cut out for being an influencer. Typically so much of their #engagement comes from being pleasant and responsive to their followers but sofie’s seem to actively annoy her. If you’re trying to sell people shit they don’t need at least be nice about it! Rule 1.

 

[Penelope Strawberry]

Speaking of lazy, wonder how it's going with the Peloton.

 

[emm]

could create an absolutely lethal drinking game using a bingo card: take a shot every time “nuance” is weaponised to try and cover their backs, pass out within ten minutes

and a double shot for every time jameela announces a new health issue she suffers from

 

[nothanksbabes]

I know it's awful but she makes me want to go on a diet.

 

[normalishperson]

I think someone did make a comment a while back about there being a lot of single use plastic and she flipped saying that you’re privileged if your able to be environmentally conscious and that not everyone can be. While I understand to a point that many environmentally friendly solutions can be more costly surely we can all make a small difference

something that drives me mad about influencers in general is that they say things like ‘being environmentally conscious is a privilege’ and they’re absolutely right BUT do they not have the privilege of time, money and resources?

like yeah it’s right to point out that not everyone can do it but more often than not the influencers themselves can. They just cba

 

[lamaitresse]

You wonder what Sofie is like as a friend. Sometimes on social media you see a whole different (narcissistic / needy) side to someone you thought was quite grounded, or they're just as cunty IRL as their online self. I wonder which one it is.

The Tweet mentioning PCOS wasn't nasty or sarcastic in any way - I think she really needs to calm the fuck down and not see people offering an alternative viewpoint as an attack.

Also, #freehank

 

[Not_A_Troll]

I don’t agree with what he said to her but sending your followers after someone is out of order imo

 

[bunnyblue]

So... once again followers are the worst people ever for reading a tone from a message / story / caption, but it’s absolutely fine for Sofie to do it, and basically call this person (who asked an absolutely inoffensive and reasonable question) annoying?!

 

[Greenlentils]

Oh my goodness, I've just read it and I'm surprised that Sofie has left it up - they do not come across well at all.

Sofie trying to spin it that Daryl clearly is unhappy in his life is such a cliche that people who live their lives online like to throw out when they get any criticism at all. End of the day, you have the right to tweet whatever rubbish you want and others can reply whatever rubbish they want (as long as it's legal etc etc) but COME ON - yes, maybe he didn't really need to say that Sofie did not by any means need to GO OFF like that. They seem worryingly disproportionately offended by him.

What on earth does Sofie mean when they're all 'it didn't take me long to find all this out, I'm not bothered about you in the slightest, just intrigued'

Sofie, hun, you definitely look like you're bothered.

As someone said above, 'you're clearly not well' is classic gaslighting to the level that Sofie would lash out if someone directed that towards them. It is patronising and stigmatising of anyone dealing with difficult things. From the 'research' Sofie has done, they seem to be making the assumption that Daryl is having a hard time mentally, hence his acting out. That is so harmful and wrong.

Even if it was true (which we don't know in this case) then it is never the case that harmful actions can be excusable because of mental health. People who have mental health concerns are not all rude and online bullies - you'd think that with all of their awareness raising and activism Sofie would understand this.

 

[Jockmcgraw]

Why does she care so much about all the questions she's recieved about feet on the dashboard?? Surely it's easy just to ignore?

I also don't understand the arsey tone of ''what sort of people fill in a 23hr old Q&A box and don't look to see if their question has been answered already''....is it normal to check how long a story has been live for?! I'd don't think I notice it most of the time...

Give me strength!

 

[Just_Looking_]

It baffles me that some of these influencers ask for peoples opinions on things but then shoot down every single one, why bother?

 

[emm]

THREE takeaways in an average day?!? I just... I get not wanting to cook when you feel crappy but just stock up on ready meals or ravioli or something easy? It's such a huge waste of money!! (And I say this as someone who orders takeaways 3 times a week and can't really afford it but knows how tempting it is, hence my coping strategies.)

yeah really, also 3 big takeaways a day, none of those were the equivalent of a bowl of cornflakes or whatever. It really is insane that she is doing this then begging for patreon money