Wow. I hadn’t thought of it this way, but you make some really good points.I guess I’m the only one who’s completely fed up with the “Katie Holmes is a hero for escaping from Tom Cruise” story. Obviously, good for her getting the divorce done on her terms, but she knew what she was getting into when she agreed to marry him in the first place. It was after his divorce from Mimi Rogers and after his much publicised divorce from Nicole Kidman. Everybody on the planet knew by then that he was neck-deep in the Scientology cult. She’s been in Hollywood for years, it was an open secret that he was auditioning for a new wife, and that some actresses actually had the good sense to say “hell no” when they got an offer through their agents. And even if she lived in a some kind of rose-tinted bubble and didn’t hear anything, sure she did notice something was off during their engagement (jumping on the couch during the interview?) The warning signs were there. Clearly she thought she knew what she was doing, marrying him and bringing a child into that. She was in it for the fame and for his clout, hoping she’d get a career like Kidman’s, not taking into account that she’s a much more limited actress. Hopefully her daughter does not end up with issues too severe from the exposure to Scientology at the early age, and now the whole estrangement from her father. At least not so severe that a few years of therapy sessions cannot fix it.
The only thing I would say is that even if Katie Holmes knew what she was getting into (and she clearly did), it doesn’t mean she has no right to leave the marriage.
Maybe at first, she knew what to expect, and they initially had a happy relationship. But who knows what then happened. I still think that the fact that it was so complicated for her to leave, and to divorce him speaks volumes.