Pavement1979
Member
I have always found the secondary trauma of going through the justice system is something that really isn't considered. I was dragged through it by the police as a victim (hate that word) of a historic crime reported by another victim. The trauma of video statements, your medical records being seized, the way they tell you that the arrest is happening that day, CPS decision making, being summonsed to court, swearing an oath, having your personal and family history delved into etc is awful.
The ripples of this case have been massive - on FS, AZ, YS, JH, BE and on and on. The impact and dirt dug up has been wide ranging and very messy. It has taught me to get my social media settings completely locked down. People can and will hang you based on something as innocuous as a filter or a meme. Imagine having all this going on whilst dealing with the fundamental pain that is your grandaughter/niece's death and the potential loss of a very young family member to prison. It's awful.
The ripples of this case have been massive - on FS, AZ, YS, JH, BE and on and on. The impact and dirt dug up has been wide ranging and very messy. It has taught me to get my social media settings completely locked down. People can and will hang you based on something as innocuous as a filter or a meme. Imagine having all this going on whilst dealing with the fundamental pain that is your grandaughter/niece's death and the potential loss of a very young family member to prison. It's awful.