No, you’re misunderstanding what my point is, that is absolutely not what I was trying to say. This is what it sounded like Sarah was alluding to by saying “not her or Kurt’s fault”.this is rude. i’ve had 2miscarriages and to say the genetic issue that caused the miscarriages was the parents fault are just wrong and rude. how dare you?
I definitely feel like it did not say it was definite. She said ‘99%’ chance but I don’t know if that’s the legitimate ratesI can’t be fucked skipping through the video again. Did it confirm the baby does actually have an abnormality or is it still just a potential? Or the abnormality may be severe or just mild - but is an absolute definite?
I just get an ick feeling that all is actually okay now and this is purely to justify her baiting and to keep up engagement. Remembering this is Sarah who baited us and is very strategic on how she lies, shares specific things only and manipulates her audience.
pretty sure she said it was a 99% chanceI can’t be fucked skipping through the video again. Did it confirm the baby does actually have an abnormality or is it still just a potential? Or the abnormality may be severe or just mild - but is an absolute definite?
I also get the same ick feeling!I just get an ick feeling that all is actually okay now and this is purely to justify her baiting and to keep up engagement. Remembering this is Sarah who baited us and is very strategic on how she lies, shares specific things only and manipulates her audience.
A cynical part of me thought for a second that maybe the amnio/cvs was fine and she is lying about it, only to turn around and say ‘god is good!’ When her baby is born without the condition.See I just feel it will end up that it’s all “normal” and she is the “1%” and this is actually a scare/risk as opposed to a diagnosis and result. Just the way she has been carrying on since the initial bait makes me feel eugh about it, like she is exaggerating certain parts when all is going to be fine in the end. I hope I’m wrong though.
I feel the same suspicions. I am so empathetic to the anxiety and heartache around decision making on a child’s life - I went through it myself this year.A cynical part of me thought for a second that maybe the amnio/cvs was fine and she is lying about it, only to turn around and say ‘god is good!’ When her baby is born without the condition.
butttt, I don’t think even she would stoop that low. Right?
I thought she said the NIPT was 99% certain and the amnio confirmed it?pretty sure she said it was a 99% chance
I feel sorry for you, and thanks for reminding everyone that nobody here is entitled to judge her for how she/they are handling their situation, especially while they were waiting for the test results.This video was really hard but interesting to watch. I experienced a very similar thing earlier this year. I was delivered the results, and was given a few options. I can confirm that some doctors do recommend termination. My pregnancy ended in miscarriage.
I have to admire their strength, and that they’ve decided to go against what that one specialist suggested and do everything they can to give their baby a great life.
I don’t want to moderate AT ALL because you guys are fucking awesome and everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I hope that it is understood that unless you go through something like that, you have no idea how it feel, how you would act or what you would do.
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ETA: I saw someone mention that Sarah highlighted that “it’s nothing Kurt or I did” that caused it. It may seem odd to some of you that she said it, but when you hear or read this info, it is comforting in a weird way.
Being able to share her experience might help her cope. All the baiting she did might just have been her trying to get her head around what is going on (in her own way). I feel very uncomfortable reading angry comments like this regarding such delicate matter.Without trying to moderate, I feel like we really should still focus on calling her out on her BS instead of pitying her. Yes the situation is unfortunate, but she still baited, hyped it up, even manipulated her audience to take her side and garner sympathy even before the video was published, “the haters will have a field day”, “if you follow me for the right reasons, you’d understand”.
With that in mind, my suggestion for the next thread title-
Sarah’s Day #38 Sarah is anti-vax
I would expect that they had a name but wanted something more meaningful after finding out.Maybe its a surfer name and she thinks this child won't be able to surf.
To be fair she didn’t really have a choice after all the baiting. And as I mentioned earlier, I actually believe that the baiting was her way of coping. And someone else stated earlier that the smirking and joking might just be Kurt‘s awkward way of dealing with it. Sorry this might be an unpopular opinion.Everything about this video was off.. Kurt smiling and laughing, Sarah’s fake crying. I don’t doubt that receiving news like that would be hard, but this just felt like a massive performance. She could have easily dealt with this in the background and posted on socials like she is now and no one would have known, but her self absorbed ass had to milk this situation. She is so gross and pathetic.
Welcome new member! I find it weird you have an issue with this user making comments on such a “delicate matter” yet have made multiple posts defending Sarah baiting this said “delicate matter”Being able to share her experience might help her cope. All the baiting she did might just have been her trying to get her head around what is going on (in her own way). I feel very uncomfortable reading angry comments like this regarding such delicate matter.
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