6 to 10 weeks is customary. 3 - 4 months for a destination wedding like hers. You usually send save the date cards 6 - 8 months in advance.Yep! She sure did.
My question is, if the wedding is 3 months away, would they not have invited people by now? Like, invites take time to print, and then distribute, then get RSVPs for, then finalise numbers for catering and seating and...
Mind you, when I got married I gave everyone like a years notice, and 10 months months to RSVP which I know is very unusual (we had people from 6 states coming and many needed heaps of time to apply for leave). Maybe 3 months is normal! What do you think?