She needs to get a grip and stop romanticising Aberdeen. The place is a dump. It’s fucking cold, grey, depressing, wet, expensive (even though it’s a shit hole) - it’s not even a real city, it’s like a glorified large town. It’s not somewhere to dream of moving to at all. And what is it she’s so desperate to move back for? In a few years? She won’t have a job in Aberdeen so she will be starting from scratch work wise, as will Rob, she won’t be living in her parents house so it’s not going to be like going “home” for a week of her mum looking after the kids and Sarah drinking wine sitting on her arse watching. Plus by then she’s going to have 2 kids who will be teenagers or just abouts, 2 hormonal teens who ARE FROM THE SOUTH OF ENGLAND who she wants to uproot and drag all the way up there for what? I’ve lived in Aberdeen and I now live on the south coast of England and there is a stark contrast between the two places in terms of the weather, the physical attributes of the places, the people - why she wants to drag her family up to Aberdeen is honestly beyond me.