Sarah Everard

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What a strange argument? I was simply stating that you couldn’t lay the blame of his crime at his parents door. How on earth do you know it stemmed from his childhood? Even if it did it doesn’t mean it’s his parents’ fault does it?
How do you know his parents are blameless? The impact parents have on how a child turns out is absolutely huge. The statement some people are just evil is very generic. It is also reckless to say some people are just evil as if they are helpless? That is incredibly offensive to their victims.
 
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Most women suffer some form of sexual harassment, 1 in 4 have been victims of sexual assault.

We don’t judge anyone who is wary of dogs because they got bitten as a child. We don’t lecture them that most dogs are friendly and won’t do them any harm. We don’t call the dog haters, shame them or ridicule them. In general we tend to understand why they feel that way.

Way more women are victims of men than dogs. Why are we not given the same respect?
 
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Has anyone heard of the India Chipchase murder too? It's another one which has stuck with me, absolutely horrendous case
I remember this one now - remember reading at the time as my family live in the area. God how awful for her friends she was out with
 
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How do you know his parents are blameless? The impact parents have on how a child turns out is absolutely huge. The statement some people are just evil is very generic. It is also reckless to say some people are just evil as if they are helpless? That is incredibly offensive to their victims.
Even if his parents had a bad relationship with him they didn't intend to make him a murderer.
tit parents exists everywhere and most people don't turn out to kill someone 🤷‍♀️
I also think there's the consideration that even if he did have a poor relationship with his parents, that's still a huge shock to them. Just like it's a huge shock to his MIL and other extended family probably. I doubt any of the family is sitting there going 'oh yeah, he grew up to just kill someone!', if anything they're probably noticing small things that now look very very different in a new context
 
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I’m sorry I hope this does not come across the wrong way or offensive to anyone but for me

a “not all men” a witch
Is the same as an “all lives matter” a witch
Yep. Two sides of the same a for sure.
 
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Regarding Davina, the man in this case is a literal Police officer someone in theroy you should'nt need to be wary of so, after this how are women not going to treat all as a potential danger even more than ever?
I’ve literally written already on this thread about a year 7 girl on the tube in the middle of the afternoon with school friends who still got her skirt covered in gunk at the back after a man wanked off to her

so I think davina needs to sit the F down with her I’d never walk alone tit
 
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Even if his parents had a bad relationship with him they didn't intend to make him a murderer.
tit parents exists everywhere and most people don't turn out to kill someone 🤷‍♀️
I also think there's the consideration that even if he did have a poor relationship with his parents, that's still a huge shock to them. Just like it's a huge shock to his MIL and other extended family probably. I doubt any of the family is sitting there going 'oh yeah, he grew up to just kill someone!', if anything they're probably noticing small things that now look very very different in a new context
Obviously his parents didn’t intend to create a murderer. This has happened as a result of something though that’s for certain.
 
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How do you know his parents are blameless? The impact parents have on how a child turns out is absolutely huge. The statement some people are just evil is very generic. It is also reckless to say some people are just evil as if they are helpless? That is incredibly offensive to their victims.
Blimey!!! How do you know his parents are to blame? You don’t! Don’t twist my words. My saying some people are just evil was in no way Suggesting that “he couldnt help murdering someone because he is evil”. I never said or suggested that. You took my words and completely changed what I meant or rather you gave them meaning from your own personal opinion - not mine. I’m not here to defend this absolute monster.?
 
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And whilst I'm off on a rant can i also point out... We have a female head of state, have had 2 female PM's and a female chief police commissioner and STILL we have had no change 😢😢

Body confirmed as Sarah's 💔💔
 
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If it was self inflicted which it probably was, he's obviously trying to make it look like someone did it to him.... It screams guilty!!! There's alot more to this, there could be a string of victims, what an absolute weirdo exposing himself. I never understand why someone would do it? You'd just look like a freak without achieving anything
Men who expose themselves want to intimidate the onlooker. It is another game to them. They are usually individuals who are lacking in other aspects of life, so doing this gives them some control and power over their victims.

They are vile and need annihilating. 😡
 
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Blimey!!! How do you know his parents are to blame? You don’t! Don’t twist my words. My saying some people are just evil was in no way Suggesting that “he couldnt help murdering someone because he is evil”. I never said or suggested that. You took my words and completely changed what I meant or rather you gave them meaning from your own personal opinion - not mine. I’m not here to defend this absolute monster.?
And how do you know they aren’t? His behaviour has stemmed from somewhere and parental attitude and relationships in babies and children have a large impact.
It appears that you don’t like being challenged. I never suggested what you have stated.
 
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Obviously his parents didn’t intend to create a murderer. This has happened as a result of something though that’s for certain.
Hes a grown man, only he is responsible for his actions. If he had a tough upbringing (which you are purely speculating) then he should have seen a councillor not been a predator and murderer.

Gobsmacked at the excuses for this man. He’s vile and the ONLY person to blame.

Plenty of people have tit upbringings and don’t then murder people
 
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Even if his parents had a bad relationship with him they didn't intend to make him a murderer.
tit parents exists everywhere and most people don't turn out to kill someone 🤷‍♀️
I also think there's the consideration that even if he did have a poor relationship with his parents, that's still a huge shock to them. Just like it's a huge shock to his MIL and other extended family probably. I doubt any of the family is sitting there going 'oh yeah, he grew up to just kill someone!', if anything they're probably noticing small things that now look very very different in a new context
Exactly this!!!!
 
Obviously his parents didn’t intend to create a murderer. This has happened as a result of something though that’s for certain.
I come from a bad family. One of my siblings is a sex offender. The rest of us are living law abiding lives. Would my brother have been a better person if our home life was more stable? Possibly, but I doubt anyone can answer that for sure. It might not have made a difference. Plenty of good parents produce bad children. I do know that looking at my parents gives him an out - he’s an adult and knows right from wrong. Everything he’s done is on him and him alone.
 
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I come from a bad family. One of my siblings is a sex offender. The rest of us are living law abiding lives. Would my brother have been a better person if our home life was more stable? Possibly, but I doubt anyone can answer that for sure. It might not have made a difference. Plenty of good parents produce bad children. I do know that looking at my parents gives him an out - he’s an adult and knows right from wrong. Everything he’s done is on him and him alone.
This whole parental thing also isn't that far from suddenly blaming parents rather than the actual person responsible for the crime. We don't accept blaming the victim in this case, not sure why we'd accept to blame the parents.
 
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