My fella wouldn’t harm me or anyone else for that matter, he’s way too relaxed for his own good sometimes but I explained the situation in a “if we had a child and separated and I did x y z….” And his response was “I wouldn’t bleeping murder you and the fella”. This is coming from a man whom is in the same situation as Luke, he was 7 when mam got new fella and still calls him by his name to this day even though they’re married YEARS. His dad even said to us the other day “I’d rather he wasn’t on your top table for the wedding, I’m his dad”….my chap is near 30 now and these feelings don’t change. I’m so disgusted and heartbroken for Luke and can’t imagine any mother would do this on their child if they truly loved them