I kind of see big Paul differently than most because I think he’s autistic and maybe never been diagnosed - my husband is and he too can be awkward in big family groups etc - he’s not trying to be awkward, he just prefers to stand back. The baby Paul obsession is a bit much. But I completely understand the way he can behave. All that fuss and attention, if he is autistic - he probably doesn’t want these strangers etc filming everything they do. I could be completely wrong here and don’t want to offend anyone - it’s just my opinion.