Safiyya Vorajee

[Romeo1]

So on the Facebook page loads ppl sent presents for azaylia to the grandmother's address. And then saf and ash put out a post saying they didn't support any other social media platforms with azaylia name only there own and they were not getting passed any stuff on. And in the final days of azaylias life the grandmother put a video up of her and the aunt I think banging the door down of saf home when they were inside minding there baby and they dumped all the presents in there front drive. It was so horrible it really was . She then took the video down because ppl were outraged.

 

[JSquared]

I just hope they are able to support each other through this. The whole journey they seemed to have been quite distant but we only see a fraction of their lives through SM, so who knows!

 

[chocdip]

As a grandmother who has watched her granddaughter being born into the world and then watch her pass away 5 days later in my daughters arms was the most horrific pain I have ever felt and still feel 4 years on. To say my pain is nothing compared to my daughters would be quite difficult to speculate on. Not only have I had to deal with my own grief but I’ve also had to deal with watching my daughter go through the most worst thing imaginable and seeing her hit rock bottom and whilst grieving myself I’ve had to stay strong for my daughter, it’s like a double whammy for us grand parents. I know what you’re trying to say though but please just know that us Nanny’s are hurting just as much xx

I’m so sorry actually heartbroken at how I worded it to make you feel I’m genuinely sorry. I mean saffs mom as a whole person how she’s reacted how she’s hash tagging all the fame etc in no way do I ever mean your pain was not real, I wish I could eat them words. This was no way towards any other grandparents who lost their grandchildren it’s for a grandma who made a lot about her while her daughter and partner are suffering

 

[Miamia1]

I'm so wary about making this thread, I feel it's already doomed because of how previous threads have gone with regards to her family.

I'd never heard of her before everything with Azaylia (barely heard of Ashley) but throughout these months I've really developed admiration for her strength and stoicism. I think she's coped the best that she possibly could with the worst hand to be dealt. I truly hope the rest of her life is filled with only good fortune and happy blessings.

Really just a little appreciation post/thread for her (for as long as it stands)

me too - I think about her a lot and it has made me really think about how difficult some people have it. To lose a child is just unthinkable and the love they gave their baby girl and the awareness they raised is just incredible.

I hope that at some point, they find some peace and wish them nothing but love and happiness.

 

[Lady Bug]

I think there handling this the only way they know how ie using Instagram. If Saff doesn't have the support of her own Mother and Aunts it's no wonder she needs strangers. It probably hurts her too to see how close Ashley is to his family. I just hope they can move on and build a new life for themselves because as harsh as it sounds that's what they need to do.

 

[Its_Me]

Her mother seems like an absolute nutcase to be honest. Her Instagram posts (past and current) are all really attention seeking and I get the impression she wants to be ‘famous’ and was revelling in the attention Azaylia brought her.

 

[Chatchatchat]

Whatever happened, I don't think saf will ever wanna sort things out after the past few weeks. I know I wouldn't

I’m no contact with my mother she left when I was young and never bothered until I had my own children and then thought she could be grandmother of the year. I never let her meet them not even once. I was advised against it by a solicitor (if they built a relationship she could of gone to court for access and potentially got it where as If there’s no relationship in England grandparents don’t have rights). Hopefully by safs mum not walking with Ashley’s mum then they are doing what they can to keep her away and unfortunately at times that’s what’s needed

 

[Baconloverx]

I live in the same town as them and he's a arrogant person, but he has been with saff for ages, I used to go to the same gym as them and that was years ago, I wouldn't say he would cheat tbh, he makes out he's well liked but he's just a normal person in nuneaton not a celeb

 

[Mascaragirl]

The speculating doesn’t sit right with me when there is absolutely no evidence at all. Literally nothing.

There were a few moments at the funeral where, yes they’re not physically supporting one another. But there’s a couple where they are, and he does refer to her as ‘saffy’in his speech as well as his partner. I agree with the previous poster, a funeral is usually a worst day of someone’s life so I don’t think it’s fair to judge body language on that day. My last funeral, I didn’t want to speak to anyone, look at anyone, I just wanted to focus on making it through.

I didn’t like him on EOTB, but since Azaylia I’ve really warmed to him, maybe that’s why I don’t think he would, at least not whilst Azaylia was poorly. I really like Saffy though, you can tell she’s so genuine, she seems really close with Ashley’s sisters so it’s good she’s always with them

 

[Its_Me]

How heartbreaking for her daughter to be enduring the heartache of her baby passing away and they having a crazed family member on top of Al living in the public eye. It's so sad

I know, without knowing what exactly has happened it’s difficult to comment and it may be Safiyya not wanting to talk to her for whatever reason but you would think NO MATTER WHAT you would just be supporting her in whatever way you can and not posting cryptic backhanded comments for attention.

 

[Sunshinegal]

I can't see how he would have had the time? Weren't they constantly swapping at the hospital as well, so I get why he was barely with saf as they weren't allowed in together.
He may also not be the most affectionate person, or maybe it is just how his posts are and he is in real life, or maybe it's just that they are grieving in different ways.
I really really hope it's not true.
If it was, I really hope it doesn't come out in the media, that would so so cruel and soul destroying for safiyya. How awful she would have even seen them comments
I hope they find strength and stay together somehow. I think they were together a few years before azaylia, I never realised until recently. They are the only two that truly understand how each other feels, I hope they can support each other.

 

[Romeo1]

Given the media attentions given to beautiful azaylia, there was always someone who was going to come out and try capitalise with the tabloids with some story . I'd be very surprised if even a tabloid would print such a thing at this horrible time.

It appears her mam has deleted all social media. Prob the right decision if she is committed to fixing the relationship

 

[Its_Me]

I still can’t believe that beautiful little baby has gone

 

[smomof4]

I’m so sorry actually heartbroken at how I worded it to make you feel I’m genuinely sorry. I mean saffs mom as a whole person how she’s reacted how she’s hash tagging all the fame etc in no way do I ever mean your pain was not real, I wish I could eat them words. This was no way towards any other grandparents who lost their grandchildren it’s for a grandma who made a lot about her while her daughter and partner are suffering

Oooh no please don’t feel like that! You’re probably just angry with the fact that she should be supporting her daughter through a time like this and not posting the things she has, it’s not about that is it? It’s a time to be there for her daughter and one another no matter what. It’s difficult to know what a person goes through when you haven’t experienced it yourself so I do understand where you’re coming from too so I’m also sorry if I’ve upset you in anyway. I really hope they try and get through this together, they need each other more than they realise.

 

[Tlyfe]

I think so, it is so weird. Someone wrote a reply to Ashley´s comment on Safiyya's post about the funeral saying "Feel So Sorry For Miss Safiyya. Not Only Lost Her Beautiful Baby But Her Partner Is A Cheating Pig". People were offended by it and she replied saying the media was going to publish it soon. It would be so incredibly sad, but wouldn't surprise me if true tbh. His body language and lack of words for her speak volumes, I think. As someone already said: it's always: me/I, never us/we. Plus in a video of them dancing after the funeral, after kissing each other, Saf's face is so telling. I really hope I'm wrong though. Poor, poor Saf...

Shame on whoever made this comment on a picture of her babies funeral

 

[Romeo1]

I think so, it is so weird. Someone wrote a reply to Ashley´s comment on Safiyya's post about the funeral saying "Feel So Sorry For Miss Safiyya. Not Only Lost Her Beautiful Baby But Her Partner Is A Cheating Pig". People were offended by it and she replied saying the media was going to publish it soon. It would be so incredibly sad, but wouldn't surprise me if true tbh. His body language and lack of words for her speak volumes, I think. As someone already said: it's always: me/I, never us/we. Plus in a video of them dancing after the funeral, after kissing each other, Saf's face is so telling. I really hope I'm wrong though. Poor, poor Saf...

Omg. Well I do hope that this is not true. I would have to wonder in past few months where on earth he would have had time for anyone else but saf and his daughter.

 

[WilmaHun]

I honestly admire her for how she's dealt with all this. She comes across as so strong. I don't know if I could have been as strong as her. I do keep wondering as she is so positive, and strong, whether it's actually hit her yet that Azaylia is gone? But then I remind myself that everyone deals with grief differently and she doesn't need to be crying or whatever all the time. I wasn't aware of all the stuff with her Mum, but I feel really bad for her now. Her Mum should be supporting her not making this harder.

 

[Chatchatchat]

I’ve managed to find her mums Instagram. She is way below the belt. I hope Ashley and his family protect saf from her at this time

 

[chocdip]

I noticed on the mums Instagram before she has ashley helping her support things and pictures with them some time ago so they clearly got on okay before, perhaps they just weren't that close.
I was on the Facebook group and noticed things didn't add up after a bit. I noticed Ash and saf would ask people not to do things and her mum would still be on the fb group encouraging people. I also noticed at one point her telling people to follow her on Instagram which is thought was bizarre, it was a group for support of her terminally ill granddaughter!
I noticed she was never with them as well.
Then she started going in on them and then a lot of people realised it wasn't as she'd made out. She kind of got caught out.
She's now posting things and being very out of order.
I noticed safs brother is there for her a lot too which is good.
Saf and ash still did the right thing and let her mum see azaylia as she had a couple of pictures with her after she came home. Even with their differences, saf still did that for her mum.
This is the worst time of safs life and she will not forget her mum acting this way towards her and so publicly. They may have been able to make up but this could do damage that saf may not be able to get over.

You worded it perfectly

 

[whoisthatnow]

I think they are both amazing. It is so devastating.