Iāve also had an ED since I was 14, Iām now 45. Whilst Iām currently a healthy weight, I still have days and weeks where I struggle. Iāve had professional help, and know my triggers, and am very open with everyone. If I lost the amount of weight sheās lost, in such a short time, my family and friends would be worried. In my opinion, sheās not in recovery, but still struggling with her ED, but because sheās being told by outside (and inside) influences that she looks good, she thinks sheās ok. Youāre absolutely right, you donāt just āget overā an ED, without therapy. Her diet and the way she feeds her children either run portions, or loads of sugar, completely proves her lack of knowledge about nutrition and eating.