Genuine question here and not doing it as a dig to the SJs. But ever since E2 was very very little he was put in princess dresses etc like his older sister . They played in them with dolls and had fun. Great! However do you think E2 accepted this as the norm? This was his happy place ? Whatever toys/ dresses his sister got he was given same when asked . Why wouldn’t he ask in no ‘boy’ toys were forthcoming ?
Is this J’s ways of living his desires through hjs child ? Fast forward to where we are now and school age . E1 weres a uniform which is a dress. Why can’t he? She’s the older sibling which he looks up to ? Esp if they don’t mix with other kids only school kids?
I don’t know maybe the child has expresses a desire to be a girl and that is fine too. I just think he is far too young to know what he wants and if the parents have always given him one sided options . Not a coincidence now that the E1 is running dry he decides to come out with his story . Doesn’t sound right to me !
Is this J’s ways of living his desires through hjs child ? Fast forward to where we are now and school age . E1 weres a uniform which is a dress. Why can’t he? She’s the older sibling which he looks up to ? Esp if they don’t mix with other kids only school kids?
I don’t know maybe the child has expresses a desire to be a girl and that is fine too. I just think he is far too young to know what he wants and if the parents have always given him one sided options . Not a coincidence now that the E1 is running dry he decides to come out with his story . Doesn’t sound right to me !