I don't know where to even begin with this post.
People assume Anna and Jonathan prevent Eduardo from playing with "boys toys." Every video I've ever seen of that child paints a very different story. I've never once seen him gravitate towards cars, trucks, or whatever else people think only boys are supposed to play with. They give him everything he's ever asked for. If you watched his birthday video this year he even said some of the things he received were on his list. I'm genuinely perplexed when people say they are "forcing it down his throat." You are giving them way too much credit and Eduardo not enough. People absolutely refuse to accept the fact that Eduardo might actually enjoy playing with the toys he has.
Serious question for you and anyone else who feels "disgusted" by Eduardo's choice of self expression. If Emilia and Alessia started showing interest in toy cars, monster trucks, action figures, and skate boards would you think it was "disgusting?" If they said they wanted to grow up to be a mechanic, a construction worker, a pilot, a welder, a solider, or anything else you'd label a "man's profession," would you be so discouraging? Whatever hang ups you might have, stop projecting them onto other people's kids.
Lastly, being homosexual and being transgender are not the same thing so stop suggesting that they are.