SacconeJolys #21 Too busy on Tik Tok to watch out for the Toy Box

[Sugarpuff]

Hello to Jonathan or Anna reading here. Just a wee parenting tip. When you transition children to a bed they will get out a lot at the beginning. What you have to do is without talking to them CALMLY take them back to bed, tuck them in and leave them. Night after night until they learn getting out has no benefits. I’m not sure what you did with the other three but putting the side back on Andreas bed isn’t helping him learn the right thing to do. So when his big bed arrives expect a few nights of staying up later, putting him back but not talking to him and he will quickly get the idea.

Exactly. I used to (and sometimes still do) watch Supernanny and her bedtime routine. 1st time: Place the child in bed and say it's bedtime darling and leave. 2nd time: calmly take them back, tuck them and say it's bed time then leave. 3rd time: say nothing and take them straight back to bed and repeat for as long as it takes. It will take a while for sure but Andrea will eventually get the message. Otherwise poor Eduardo will be getting even less sleep than he is now

Andrea is not even 2 yet, they aren't putting him in a single already, are they?

They're getting him a bed as he's climbing out of his cot. They did take the bars off to make it into a bed but put them back on as he got out of bed too many times.

 

[Bronx_Princess]

Otherwise poor Eduardo won't be getting enough sleep now.

Don't think Eduardo is getting enough sleep already. He'll be getting less.

 

[Mrs Mac.]

Very interesting conversation between Anna and Emilia at the end of tonights vlog (by the way this is very loose, forgot the exact words)

Emilia: Do you think daddy will come home? Has he gone on a run
Anna: Yeah, he's gone on a run
Emilia: Yay!
thoughts?

It was worse than that. She said will he come back ( she asked that twice) and when Anna said yes she said good. Very weird thing to say.

 

[Eldorado]

Does make it sound like some nights he stays somewhere else

 

[ProphecyLost]

If the marriage is all for YouTube now (very much speculation) then Emilia and Eduardo have definitely picked up on it.

 

[Just-opinion]

Dismal food day for Anna. For lunch that mush that looks like mashed potato is extremely overcook quinoa. That lump for afternoon snack is apparently a muffin and that dinner looks like it's served on no bigger than a side plate. Also, that tiny dinner at 5:20, no wonder she's starving before her workout at 5am the next day, that is probably the equivalent amount of calories as a snack for most people

 

[DoseofReality]

Hello to Jonathan or Anna reading here. Just a wee parenting tip. When you transition children to a bed they will get out a lot at the beginning. What you have to do is without talking to them CALMLY take them back to bed, tuck them in and leave them. Night after night until they learn getting out has no benefits. I’m not sure what you did with the other three but putting the side back on Andreas bed isn’t helping him learn the right thing to do. So when his big bed arrives expect a few nights of staying up later, putting him back but not talking to him and he will quickly get the idea.

You should probably address this to Eduardo. He does the night shift with Andrea.

 

[Heidi77]

It was worse than that. She said will he come back ( she asked that twice) and when Anna said yes she said good. Very weird thing to say.

I wonder did he storm out after a row? Maybe he threatened not to come back till she pulls her finger out & helps more around the house.

 

[Somerville12]

Where is the bloody curry sauce??? Why does she roast till half black...virtually no oil no doubt..everything that is a vegetable?... Where's the carb?? Rice or naan bread??? And that lasts her 12 hrs till morning??? I get scummy jonnyshining is in that kitchen making himself supper food after 9../ Or has a mini kitchen is his manwankporn office with mini fridge too... Or when not in lockdown fastest finger first on uber eats/deliveroo post half 8 when she s fast asleep??

 

[Jak]

Does make it sound like some nights he stays somewhere else

I think it could mean he's as nasty as Anna and storms out saying he's not coming back, poor kids probably witness some nasty tit!

 

[Eldorado]

Yes I agree, makes more sense!

 

[ProphecyLost]

She does realise she can pack in most vegetables as they are minimal calories, never experienced an ED so I don't know how it works mentally.
I am the type of person who over eats so I load up on veg now to try and stabilise my weight.

 

[marvelgirl98]

I noticed the bedtime conversation between Anna and Emilia too. It was odd. I used to have similar conversations with my parents after they had had a row - there was a lot of storming out. J & A's relationship is most definitely for show, there is absolutely nothing between them. Jonathan is a pervert and Anna is a frigid narcissist. He definitely isn't sharing a room with Anna - I haven't seen any of his belongings in there? Plus, Anna's bedtime routine wouldn't work with him there. Jonathan is as graceful as a gorilla and there is no way she wouldn't wake up when he gets in. Given that she doesn't moan about him waking her up, I would take that as it doesn't happen. Anna would take every opportunity she could to publicly berate Jonathan.

 

[Bon Qui Qui]

It was worse than that. She said will he come back ( she asked that twice) and when Anna said yes she said good. Very weird thing to say.

Seeing as her mother and father almost never leave the house I think it's very normal for her to have anxiety around him leaving. Most kids see their parents come and go several times a week if not everyday. so I imagine for Emilia it's very very strange to see her father actually leave the damn house . She's probably so worried confused by it that she's wondering if he'll come back because she doesn't understand it's very normal for moms and dads to leave the house and come back.

 

[Saskia69]

Seeing as her mother and father almost never leave the house I think it's very normal for her to have anxiety around him leaving. Most kids see their parents come and go several times a week if not everyday. so I imagine for Emilia it's very very strange to see her father actually leave the damn house . She's probably so worried confused by it that she's wondering if he'll come back because she doesn't understand it's very normal for moms and dads to leave the house and come back.

I actually didn’t read too much into it, as I assumed it was related to the current context - we’ve had it drilled into our heads to “stay at home”. I worked in a school just before lockdown and the kids were terrified.


So many feared they were going to die simply stepping outside. This was an extreme, but maybe Emilia is just worried from this perspective? The kids won’t understand the nuances of the lockdown easing!

 

[Linnyloo]

Exactly. I used to (and sometimes still do) watch Supernanny and her bedtime routine. 1st time: Place the child in bed and say it's bedtime darling and leave. 2nd time: calmly take them back, tuck them and say it's bed time then leave. 3rd time: say nothing and take them straight back to bed and repeat for as long as it takes. It will take a while for sure but Andrea will eventually get the message. Otherwise poor Eduardo will be getting even less sleep than he is now


They're getting him a bed as he's climbing out of his cot. They did take the bars off to make it into a bed but put them back on as he got out of bed too many times.

Mrs Mac's advice shud be directed at the nanny as there's no way those two lazy cretins will keep getting up with Andrea.

 

[Somerville12]

Did any tattler s watch the scumjolys back when allessia... Aka messy lessy / cold shower poor poor child was moved from cot to bed?? I didn't watch then... was it vlogged.. just curious... Were the kids are as nannified/managed as it is now ,18 months ago ish???

 

[ERJ]

Bit of off top, but I saw you guys talking about that Myka girl. They've confirmed that Huxley isn't with them anymore. Basically they give up on him. There is a whole article about it on buzzfeed.

 

[CringesFringes]

Bit of off top, but I saw you guys talking about that Myka girl. They've confirmed that Huxley isn't with them anymore. Basically they give up on him. There is a whole article about it on buzzfeed.

How Anna would be wishing that she could give ip all her kids like Myka.

 

[twinkle76]

She’s on stories saying the kids are at the beach. Why on earth isn’t she with them???