Anna at the end of the video today...
I totally get where she was coming from. My youngest was quite the handful when she was a toddler. But the entire time she was complaining I kept saying, "He's a toddler Anna. He doesn't know the meaning of sit still or danger. That's what you guys are there for."
Also, is it just me or does anyone hold their breath in when she sit's Alessia or Andrea on the counter behind her while she cooks? I did that once when my eldest was 2 and she decided she wanted down. I was less than a foot away from her and she tried getting down by herself. Had I not caught her she would have cracked her head wide open. I stopped putting my kids on counters after that. I just put them on the floor. I understand it's a pain when they start crying while you are in the middle of something. I had to really work with my girls when they were little and help them understand that mommy can't hold you right now, she has to do this. Contrary to popular belief, your kids aren't going to die or turn into mental cases just because you can't hold them 24/7. If they really need to be close to you then wear them. Did that a few times to, especially when they were sick. But please don't leave them unattended on a counter, especially with your back turned to them.