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Ghosttalk4
Chatty Member
"How would I find or choose a disadvantaged family to give a Bugaboo to? That would be incredibly patronising and unrealistic."... so we just kept it all for ourselves.
You have enough money to take a once in a life time trip every other month and fanny around all day with expensive bed sheets and flowers and call it work. But god forbid you actually had to try and do something for someone else.
In what capacity could offering your free pram to a needy charity or woman's shelter or donating some of the money you were happy to spend on one be considered patronising when a) you were offered several prams and b) you were literally sat there with the money waiting to buy it anyway.
And no, "huge perk to my job but there are perks to all jobs" is just not true at all and just highlights how incredibly detached you really are from reality.
There are thousands stuck on zero hours contracts or working 60 hour weeks on minimum wage to try and scrape enough together to support their family with absolutely no perks at all.
I find incredibly 'patronising and unrealistic' that she expects those people to happily sit and watch her fill her house with freebies she can afford when she gloates on twitter about how much her husband earns compared to others.
You have enough money to take a once in a life time trip every other month and fanny around all day with expensive bed sheets and flowers and call it work. But god forbid you actually had to try and do something for someone else.
In what capacity could offering your free pram to a needy charity or woman's shelter or donating some of the money you were happy to spend on one be considered patronising when a) you were offered several prams and b) you were literally sat there with the money waiting to buy it anyway.
And no, "huge perk to my job but there are perks to all jobs" is just not true at all and just highlights how incredibly detached you really are from reality.
There are thousands stuck on zero hours contracts or working 60 hour weeks on minimum wage to try and scrape enough together to support their family with absolutely no perks at all.
I find incredibly 'patronising and unrealistic' that she expects those people to happily sit and watch her fill her house with freebies she can afford when she gloates on twitter about how much her husband earns compared to others.
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JBinstafun
Chatty Member
The age difference is one (illegal) thing but the power imbalance in the relationship is another; he was already a wealthy man with his own property and you were a schoolgirl. Whether you realise it or not you are dependent on him and have been your whole adult life.
Your lovely home and amazing holidays don’t make grooming OK.
Your lovely home and amazing holidays don’t make grooming OK.
Ghosttalk4
Chatty Member
She is insufferable. Sulking because she got a little backlash and pretending it's happening to other people, not her.
So many people she follows are 'having to defend themselves and their lives to critics'? No, no Rebecca that was you having to defend your contradictory ad a few hours earlier and you couldn't hack even the politest feedback so you threw your teddy out the #gifted pram.
You only have to defend yourself because you've made this your job, being paid from the content you put out there. You have to realise that you can be held accountable for your content when it offends people.
As for wanting to put yourself in a private bubble, I honestly wish you would. Absolutely no one asked you to share every intimate detail of your life, trying to conceive, meeting your husband while still at school, your parents having issues with alcohol, your obscene amount of holiday and where you live. You share all this all over the web and expect absolutely everyone agree and can't handle it when they don't.
Call it a day before your daughter arrives. Do something for more productive with your time and learn about privacy and online safety.
So many people she follows are 'having to defend themselves and their lives to critics'? No, no Rebecca that was you having to defend your contradictory ad a few hours earlier and you couldn't hack even the politest feedback so you threw your teddy out the #gifted pram.
You only have to defend yourself because you've made this your job, being paid from the content you put out there. You have to realise that you can be held accountable for your content when it offends people.
As for wanting to put yourself in a private bubble, I honestly wish you would. Absolutely no one asked you to share every intimate detail of your life, trying to conceive, meeting your husband while still at school, your parents having issues with alcohol, your obscene amount of holiday and where you live. You share all this all over the web and expect absolutely everyone agree and can't handle it when they don't.
Call it a day before your daughter arrives. Do something for more productive with your time and learn about privacy and online safety.
nobrains
Well-known member
Hi new here. I've been secretly reading from the sidelines. I just had to say I agree with everything you have all said. She is an overprivileged stupid cow! How can someone who has so much money feel comfortable taking gift after gift? Surely she could say no or consider passing it on to someone who needs it. And don't get me started on her husband chasing after her when she was 15 and he was 25, that is very predatory to me.
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As tattle is all about transparency and honesty I need to inform users that this person has been making spurious and false accusations to attempt to shut down the conversation on her business.
The abuse claim filed
Logs or Evidence of Abuse: This website contains various discussion threads that are abusive.
Comments: Abusive online comments that are harassment, including trolling, encouraging others to be abusive, untrue comments intended to damage reputation and cyber stalking
The content has now gone beyond opinions and now contains defamatory information, falsehoods about me and the spread of personal information such as company details and addresses. All of which should go against your terms stated on your website and needs to be removed and moderated.
Tattle life has a very strict policy against abusive, harassment or hateful content of any kind and would delete messages of that nature if they were ever posted, ban members and report to the authorities if anyone was in any potential danger.
From looking into this thread there appears to be lots of deleted blog posts mentioned that members are just quoting what this Instagrammer said themselves. These can all be viewed on archive.org (https://web.archive.org/web/2018081...2/personal-on-falling-in-love-with-older.html) so members are not spreading false statements. No one has posted any addresses here, they have spoken about company house public and open records. There is no cyberstalking here, people have just discussed the public posts of a business account.
It's disappointing that this person has been filing untruthful complaints. Looking into their account their business would benefit from following the CMA guidelines as they have several clear breaches with not being truthful and transparent - https://www.gov.uk/government/publi...sements-being-transparent-with-your-followers
The abuse claim filed
Logs or Evidence of Abuse: This website contains various discussion threads that are abusive.
Comments: Abusive online comments that are harassment, including trolling, encouraging others to be abusive, untrue comments intended to damage reputation and cyber stalking
The content has now gone beyond opinions and now contains defamatory information, falsehoods about me and the spread of personal information such as company details and addresses. All of which should go against your terms stated on your website and needs to be removed and moderated.
Tattle life has a very strict policy against abusive, harassment or hateful content of any kind and would delete messages of that nature if they were ever posted, ban members and report to the authorities if anyone was in any potential danger.
From looking into this thread there appears to be lots of deleted blog posts mentioned that members are just quoting what this Instagrammer said themselves. These can all be viewed on archive.org (https://web.archive.org/web/2018081...2/personal-on-falling-in-love-with-older.html) so members are not spreading false statements. No one has posted any addresses here, they have spoken about company house public and open records. There is no cyberstalking here, people have just discussed the public posts of a business account.
It's disappointing that this person has been filing untruthful complaints. Looking into their account their business would benefit from following the CMA guidelines as they have several clear breaches with not being truthful and transparent - https://www.gov.uk/government/publi...sements-being-transparent-with-your-followers
Ellabella
VIP Member
Women like her spend their entire lives going on about how busy they are, it does my head in. They have literally no idea how working out of the home 10-12 hours a day has a massive impact on your life. How can it be that hard to understand that busy is not laying in bed to 8am on a Monday, nipping to garden centre mid morning, afternoon walks every day with your husband and putting up pictures?!
CyanideKiss
Chatty Member
My daughter is 16. There is no way on God's green earth that I would ever condone her dating a 26 year old man and her Dad would be horrified at the thought. It is just so wrong on so many levels. She's no oil painting so it's not like her DH was blown away by her dazzling good looks, is it?
I expect her chinless wonder DH is inadequate on several levels, so deliberately went shopping for a naive child bride. She probably calls him 'Daddy' in private.
I expect her chinless wonder DH is inadequate on several levels, so deliberately went shopping for a naive child bride. She probably calls him 'Daddy' in private.
"The very last of the babymooning"...because The Maldives wasn't the babymoon, Amsterdam wasn't the babymoon, Soho House wasn't the babymoon, Norfolk wasn't the babymoon, there's still more babymooning to be done. JFC, on what planet do you live where you talk about babymooning as if it's some perpetual state of holidaying while being pregnant. She's lost the plot.
Starshining
VIP Member
It’s called “fishing”
Start out a post saying “can anyone recommend...”
“Can anyone suggest...”
Then you start loading pictures of “a wish list”
with the company tagged in,
You “declare” you’ve always loved this brand.
Then the company “bites”.
Then you feign total surprise when company sends you the item (even though they have to contact you for your address
).Then you “declare” this is a brand you would have bought yourself.
RVK has been doing it for years
When there is a post it mostly finishes with a question.
Then all “the faithful” replies with answers.
Engagement then ups, quota done for the week, companies then see a high engagement
“free shit” then turns up at the door.
Que “feign surprise”
Wake up sheep!!!
Chatterbox
Member
She is completely unrelatable in every way. She’s only in her mid 20s, yet has been on more (expensive one off) holidays than most people would ever go on in their lifetime or ten lifetimes!!!!
She has a house which has been completely renovated in just under two years. She drives a Range Rover car, is always exercising and never eats anything unhealthy. She tends to an allotment and grows a vast array of food produce as well as growing her own ‘blooms’.
She is constantly baking and when she goes out, it’s to very affluent areas where she buys frequent bunches of peonies. That’s when she’s not walking ‘the pup’ or ‘out with her mumma’ or eating ‘gelato’. Who honestly speaks like this in real life!!!! She is easily the most nauseating person on Instagram!
She has a house which has been completely renovated in just under two years. She drives a Range Rover car, is always exercising and never eats anything unhealthy. She tends to an allotment and grows a vast array of food produce as well as growing her own ‘blooms’.
She is constantly baking and when she goes out, it’s to very affluent areas where she buys frequent bunches of peonies. That’s when she’s not walking ‘the pup’ or ‘out with her mumma’ or eating ‘gelato’. Who honestly speaks like this in real life!!!! She is easily the most nauseating person on Instagram!
Lizzie Bennett
Member
Flouting Elemis products tonight (she must be running low). States that it is “pricey”. How would she know, not like she pays for it?! More low key begging for a free parcel of “happy post “ from Elemis.
Balance Me.... you can get your coat! Elemis is apparently the best thing she’s ever put on her skin. Shame she doesn’t have two faces.....oh, wait .....
Balance Me.... you can get your coat! Elemis is apparently the best thing she’s ever put on her skin. Shame she doesn’t have two faces.....oh, wait .....
Chatterbox
Member
I just read her story referencing the terror attack in Sri Lanka. She comments that to her, Instagram is a form of escapism and pretty pictures!
No, I don’t think so!!!! For you Rebecca, it’s your job - advertising, influencing and making money!!!!!! Stop trying to make out that your account is not a business one!
I wonder how many other people in the real world see their ‘proper’ jobs as escapism????
Most people are back at work tomorrow, while you are off on another holiday to Norfolk for a few days! Do you even realise what a charmed life you live????
No, I don’t think so!!!! For you Rebecca, it’s your job - advertising, influencing and making money!!!!!! Stop trying to make out that your account is not a business one!
I wonder how many other people in the real world see their ‘proper’ jobs as escapism????
Most people are back at work tomorrow, while you are off on another holiday to Norfolk for a few days! Do you even realise what a charmed life you live????
It is me...
Active member
A baby needs milk, sleep and lots of love. Don’t let anyone make you feel inferior....... I do know what you mean though and understand how it can make someone feel, by the vast quantity of things these influencers have. I wouldn’t swop my life, house, or family for what any of them have. Contentment comes from enjoying what you have.
Right on top of that rose
VIP Member
she can afford anything she wants...If she hadn’t done this paid partnership how else was she going to afford those two more baby moons!!
lady, don’t you know her husband makes more in a year than yours would in 10?
purpleghost
Well-known member
Thread title suggestion - RVK my husband earns 10x more than yours does
Gossipqueen30
Chatty Member
I’ve just had a good read through all the past comments....
1) The 15 year old dating a 25 year old thing is just plain ODD. Also, I can’t help but think were her parents okay with it because they knew he had the money to keep her in the lifestyle she was accustomed to? Would they have been so understanding if he was a waiter in a local restaurant, or doing admin in an office for 18k a year?
and 2) when she comes on here to defend herself she says it isn’t like she was born with a silver spoon in her mouth or a trust fund, yet I followed her years back when she’s was in her old house and planning her wedding. She was featured in ideal home magazine, which tells you how much someone has paid for their house, and she said in the magazine that when they bought the house there was issue with getting the mortgage quickly enough, so her parents bought the house for her IN CASH for £311,000 until they could sort the mortgage out. I’m sorry, but how many people do you know whose parents have got a spare 300k sitting about?
1) The 15 year old dating a 25 year old thing is just plain ODD. Also, I can’t help but think were her parents okay with it because they knew he had the money to keep her in the lifestyle she was accustomed to? Would they have been so understanding if he was a waiter in a local restaurant, or doing admin in an office for 18k a year?
and 2) when she comes on here to defend herself she says it isn’t like she was born with a silver spoon in her mouth or a trust fund, yet I followed her years back when she’s was in her old house and planning her wedding. She was featured in ideal home magazine, which tells you how much someone has paid for their house, and she said in the magazine that when they bought the house there was issue with getting the mortgage quickly enough, so her parents bought the house for her IN CASH for £311,000 until they could sort the mortgage out. I’m sorry, but how many people do you know whose parents have got a spare 300k sitting about?
Hashtagblessed
Active member
This is totally how I feel. You’re not just sharing your life, you profit from what you do on Instagram and just like all other businesses you are in a privileged position and need to act responsibly. As the person said above, you’re an advertiser.
Today for example you post a string of affiliate links to your spring/summer clothes recommendations. WHY did you have to make them affiliate links? Why couldn’t you just share them as innocent recommendations? Do you really need the money that badly? You are also taking advantage of the fact that not everybody will fully understand affiliate links. Also, don’t hide the source on the screenshot so that people can find where they’re from without having to swipe up. You just come across as mean.
Final note: nobody knew that was a Jimmy Carr quote as you didn’t disclose the source
