This is just my opinion from everything Iāve seen of Ruby she comes across like a selfish and mean person. She seems like the kind of friend that is always jealous of you , never truly happy for you and guilt trips you. I bet sheās hard work to be friends with cause sheās immature but also she has a horrible bitchy streak in her. If she canāt have what you have or get to do the things you do that she wishes she could be doing too sheāll take it out on you because sheās filled with jealousy and bitterness.
Ruby always seems annoyed that she is a mum who has the responsibility of two children cause she definitely would rather be child free and able to do whatever she wants cause itās like she sees her kids as an inconvenience to her cause she doesnāt enjoy being a mum she isnāt maternal and sheās always getting someone else to take care of the kids cause she doesnāt want the responsibility she wants to go out and do her own thing. I donāt know what her friend Jess is like as a person or what kind of friend she is ( I am assuming the friend sheās currently making these angry tiktoks about is Jess because I havenāt ever heard or seen any other friend Ruby has) but what I will say is thereās a lot of evidence to back up Jess to show sheās been there for Ruby and the kids spending time with them , helping Ruby and being there when Lorenzo treated her like tit so Iām not saying Jess can do no wrong as thatās not my place to say that about a situation I donāt know about but she doesnāt seem like a fake friend from what Iāve seen of her so I wouldnāt be surprised if Ruby is the problem.
I had a look at Jess instagram and looks like sheās been on holiday recently with friends and to a festival /concert so maybe Ruby is just jealous that Jess gets to have the life that Ruby wishes she could have and maybe sheās jealous that Jess has a group of friends she has fun with whereas Rubys whole world revolves around Lorenzo and TikTok and maybe she expects Jess to make her life revolve around Ruby , give her attention all the time , help take care of her kids for her the way everyone else in Rubys life does because sheās spoilt so nobody says no to her but the fact Jess has her own life outside of Ruby is probably something Ruby doesnāt like. If thatās the case then Ruby needs to grow up because that is such a bitter selfish way to live. If you care about your friend you would be happy to see them happy enjoying their life and if they care about you theyāll still make time for you and be part of your life but they donāt have to give up their life for you.
If you have a friend who spends a lot of time with you and your kids thatās lovely but it doesnāt make someone a fake or bad friend if they donāt spend a lot of the time with you and your kids cause firstly the kids arenāt a friends responsibility and secondly people have other things going on in their lives like work, uni, health or family problems , relationships and friendships with other people they are entitled to see and make plans with and theyāre not a bad person for not making their life revolve around spending all their time with you looking after your kids Ruby.
Of course there are situations when someone can be a fake or bad friend to you and thatās not an easy thing to experience especially for anyone whoās had a baby and then a friend or friends donāt make effort with you at all they donāt even call to see how you are and that type of situation is a fake friend situation itās sad. Iām not saying Iām right cause I donāt know whatās going on between Ruby and whatever friend sheās speaking about but Ruby seems like the kind of friend who makes you feel bad or guilty for being happy without her. The TikToks Ruby is making at her age itās very cringe how immature she is.