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whatshesaid123

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I think Martha is probably rebelling against her parents in the typical “teen” way and ruby has kept the traditional kind of life. It’s probably better in the long run that Martha is turning away from what seem like her family’s old fashioned values - but she doesn’t half act immature
 
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3calico3

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Thing is, when she finishes uni, a lot of these companies won't want to work with her anymore because she won't be relevant because she wont be studying.
Yes, just like Jack Edwards is experiencing now. If you aren't perpetually a student, you aren't going to get the same demographics of audience that you did as a first year Fresher. If you can't develop your content as your own life changes, and try to cling to the student demographic you profited so much from, you'll just alienate yourself.
 
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3calico3

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On her latest video around the 7 min mark she wrote notes on what to ask her tutor on feedback (on an essay she got a 1st) and I quote:

“You say my conclusion doesn’t add up with my thesis statement, but I feel it does.”

Then goes on to cite examples of how the tutor is wrong.

I’m assuming she’s going to word it nicely to her tutor but that comes across as massively passive aggressive 😂

I never have had that confidence at uni lol but I only got a 2:1 sooooo haha

Also I wonder what kind of student she is in seninars!
She pretty much admitted that she's one of those students who over-shares (to the detriment of other people's contributions).
 
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joonielovers

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in the gov rules it states that you are allowed to travel back home for special circumstances e.g mental health issues, maybe she was just feeling very anxious?
 
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lemonlime

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Maybe she presumed that temperament must have something to do with temperature and therefore weather?

Yep, if she's not overusing words like beautiful and aesthetic, she's saying phrases that actually mean nothing ("I'm glad I live in a world whioch has Octobers" - what does that even mean?!) or words which sound like they come straight out of a thesaurus. It makes her language use very prescriptive.
That is a quote from Anne of Green Gables, and I think it was used in the series Anne with an E as well. I believe the character was feeling joyous for being able to experience true autumn days; that's the context of the gratefulness of the quote.

I remember her saying how she "decapitated" a sandwich of something like that, regarding her devouring it with vigour. I think she'd like an extensive vocabulary and mostly she does okay but being well spoken doesn't mean checking the thesaurus and replacing all the words with clever sounding ones.
 
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whatshesaid123

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Ruby should have stayed at home in the first place if she is this scared about covid. I made the decision of moving back to uni knowing that I can’t go home till Christmas. I think you have to make that decision and stick to it, it’s her housemate that I feel sorry for
 
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Mooms

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I've just found Ruby and loving her videos - I'm struggling with study motivation during lockdown and she's really helping. However, I can't help but think she's a bit OTT... she seems to study for soooo long! Does she ever just watch Netflix, play video games, take a day off?! I hope she's not too obsessed and can relax a bit.

I'd also love to know what her family does for a living because she seems crazy rich. Hasn't she bought her own house even though she's at uni (and I assume that she doesn't live in it)? I suppose with Youtube she can afford it. Also very jealous of her family home - from my limited viewing it looks like a really fancy Manor House or something!
I don’t think she ever takes a day off, she’s uploaded videos where she’s studying on Christmas Day !!
 
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CatCafe234

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Has anyone read her book/s? How’s her writing?
I read the Erimentha novel out of curiosity and it’s not *that* bad, it’s just quite odd. There’s a saying that first novels are usually autobiographical (and also that fist novels shouldn’t be published) and I felt that was the case here. The main character is oddly precocious and it read very much like an older teenager doing a bit of wish-fulfilment and writing themselves into the eleven-year old they wanted to be. Strange parents in the book too, again I don’t know if this was autobiographical or again, wish fulfilment. Lots of material for a therapist! I honestly didn’t see the main character as horrible, it read more to me like a book about a character who may or may not be somewhere on the Aspie spectrum.

I feel quite sorry for Ruby, actually. She’s obviously been massively affected by the bullying she suffered and I think that explains a lot. Her attachment to her school and her school days almost feels a bit Stockholm-syndromy given how unhappy she seems to have been at points in her education. It’s not hard to see why she’s a bit reluctant to leave that part of her life behind given what she feels she’s missed out on.
 
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3calico3

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If it was a cause she really believed in/was passionate about, she wouldn't need to receive payment to promote it - especially not NHS or government money.

It's a bit like how she and Jack are always promoting Unite, when we all know how dodgy they are.
 
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nbx512

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I remember she once studied by making a giant quizlet set, which seemed kinda odd to me. I'd imagine flash cards are better suited for STEM, where everything is fact-based and has a strict definition. But then again I'm not a humanities person so I don't know for sure.
Yeah I'm not sure how UK universities work but studying history (and French) at an Australian university I only used flashcards for new vocab and grammar. For history I never even did all the readings, I'd pick an essay topic early on (all of our assessment were research or reflective essays) and do the week's readings for the corresponding topic and then do a ton more reading around it. Ended up with a first at a very good uni while balancing multiple jobs, volunteering and sporting commitments. It's about studying smart!
 
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3calico3

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On her Instagram stories, she's gushing about how she loves each month. However, what she describes are the seasons, not the months - she just so happens to notice the changes in seasons occurring in specific months.

Also, she said that it snows in February in the UK. It hardly EVER snows in the south of England (maybe once every 5 years?!), so I don't know what she's talking about.
 
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Spencerskates

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Isn’t her sister doing her editing? I’m sure she’s spoken before about Martha doing editing for her!

I think she seems to be more okay about Oxford than such as Jade because she accepted her hurt and disappointment about it - she openly grieved and said about the impact that had on her course change. Jade, on the other hand was almost straight away spouting the standard denial ‘it’s for the best’ etc.
 
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sitkx

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Publishing a book (and not self-publishing) is a long old road. A friend of mine has had a literary agent for over 2 years but is yet to find a publisher for her YA novel. She has been shortlisted in literary competitions too, so it shows that success in some areas doesn't guarantee it overall.
it’s a lot easier to get published as a successful YouTuber. Just look at Zoella and all her “friends” who had shitty “books” published in the blink of an eye. I think publishers are very interested in working with those who already have an established fan base, that guarantees a certain number of sales. Plus she can pitch her planner sales to them to show she’s been successful in a similar area in the past.
 
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Deeznutslol

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I don’t get the criticism on her planners, it’s a business not a philanthropy
Loool chile, no one suggested it was, people just said it was overpriced which makes it a bit inaccessible to her young following, which is true. And tbh even as an adult I find 16£ for a planner pretty over priced
 
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Lola123

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She takes her temperature every morning?! Surely that’s a bit excessive? Like you would know if you were feeling a little but unwell?
I feel really bad for her housemate if ruby has left on a long term basis and she’s in the house by herself!!
 
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sergeantsantiago

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On her latest video around the 7 min mark she wrote notes on what to ask her tutor on feedback (on an essay she got a 1st) and I quote:

“You say my conclusion doesn’t add up with my thesis statement, but I feel it does.”

Then goes on to cite examples of how the tutor is wrong.

I’m assuming she’s going to word it nicely to her tutor but that comes across as massively passive aggressive 😂

I never have had that confidence at uni lol but I only got a 2:1 sooooo haha

Also I wonder what kind of student she is in seninars!
Listen, I'm all for clarifying feedback that you disagree with on an essay, but that just sounds petty af. If you're happy with the mark (and I mean it is a first Ruby.... but maybe not a high first that she wants, not that it makes much difference in the end) I'd just leave it, or email for some clarification on a comment or something.

Obviously tutors can mark essays harshly - absolutely been a victim of that lmao - but based on what we know of Ruby I can't imagine her coming off well in this conversation. "You say my conclusion doesn’t add up with my thesis statement, but I feel it does" - I can just see the tutor explaining why they're right and Ruby spluttering for some reason. With the NHS crap she pulled and how weird and fake she comes across in her videos I guess I've just decided she's a bit of a brat. Oh dear.

It won't let me quote for some reason but: This! I went to private school and it really damaged my self-confidence. From my experience there are two types of people; those who have been told how worthy of success they are their whole lives and are completely unaware of their privilege, and those who are aware of it and more reserved. So many lessons I just sat in silence, feeling so judged for speaking up in class as many believed their opinion was superior to everyone else and wouldn't let others have time to speak. I felt so worthless during my time there and I was so silent during lessons no teachers really could help me. I too felt so guilty for not being able to participate in lessons and activities due to my anxiety as my parents were paying for this experience.
Sorry for the double post - I went to a private school from a normal primary school but the feeder school into my secondary school was a prep school and everyone was frightfully middle class. I'm solidly middle class so wasn't even from a massively different background to them, but they singled me out right away as weird and a 'hippie' (....I can assure you I wasn't) and it trashed what little confidence I had joining the school as a shy introvert when there were already pre-established cliques and rules/things I didn't know about (like how cool it was to wear Jack Wills). Honestly, the whole experience was bewildering and at the time it was very hard to verbalise why I was so unhappy because it wasn't about the money, but the 'life experience' (in huuuuuge quotes because we were all 11 for gods sake haha) all these other girls seemed to have and I didn't.
 
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nissigossips

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I don't see the point in uploading a video stating what time pre-orders start, AFTER the time pre-orders start...at least upload it about an hour or so beforehand
Her youtube admin is (just in general) absolutely shocking

Don't know anyone else who's accidentally uploaded drafts / got upload times wrong / forgot to edit titles more than once... and she's done each like 20 times (not to mention how late and out of order all her videos are)
 
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