She really doesn't comprehend that 'women throughout history who were independant learners' didn't set out with the goal of being 'women throughout history who were independant learners'. They were people with a keen interest in a certain area that they were passionate about learning about and so did. And they just so happened to be women. It's something that occurred oragnically out of their genuine interest and curiosity for the subject. Trying to force it seems very weird.
I have a personal study interest in theoretical physics. I don't need to spend an entire day planning when I'm going to force myself to do it, it's something that I am naturally drawn to playing around with when I have a spare afternoon. Because I have a genuine interest in deep diving into frameworks for no other reason than the enjoyment I get out of doing so. You jump into a topic with no idea or expectations of where it's going to take you I don't need to plan out what I'm going to research or what readings I'm going to do because it's something that evolves naturally out of the work I'm already doing. There is no curriculum, ergo, independant learning. If you're planning and scheduling when you're going to do what and when, it's not independant learning, it's a self-assignment. A chore.
I have a personal study interest in theoretical physics. I don't need to spend an entire day planning when I'm going to force myself to do it, it's something that I am naturally drawn to playing around with when I have a spare afternoon. Because I have a genuine interest in deep diving into frameworks for no other reason than the enjoyment I get out of doing so. You jump into a topic with no idea or expectations of where it's going to take you I don't need to plan out what I'm going to research or what readings I'm going to do because it's something that evolves naturally out of the work I'm already doing. There is no curriculum, ergo, independant learning. If you're planning and scheduling when you're going to do what and when, it's not independant learning, it's a self-assignment. A chore.
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