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studygal

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What I love about the planner is that the front cover looks like a completely different colour every time she posts a picture. There are two decent photos of it on the website and they don't even look closely related. The description says "matcha-coloured" which coincidentally is not a good description for either of those colours.
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teflonpanda

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Watching her new vlog, and oh my god, why is she always semi-whispering, this is so annoying. Like she's in a constant awe and about to cry, because the world is syo syo beautiful and she is syo syo lucky to be here. It's like she's pretending to be a sensitive, fine-natured heroine from Jane Austen's novel who cries because the birds are so lovely.

Also my favourite part is where Ruby is walking with a notepad and pretending to write about the sunset she's observing.
Can't wait for gossip_guy commenting the whole video, really looking forward to it!!

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No, I can't:ROFLMAO: The background noise is so loud (at 5:40) that it's impossible to understand what Ruby is saying. Then she pours boiling water and tries to drink it. Why?! Doesn't she know how hot water works? She acts like a lunatic here, tbh...
God she looks like a detective taking notes at a crime scene in a children's movie xD Or like a waitress taking orders from imaginary customers in her imaginary café. This picture is so deranged, I love it
 
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gossip_guy

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From her latest blatant undeclared ad for gifted tea on Tiktok:

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There's another children's book you should read, Ruby:

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Even if this is the rare occasion where you're telling the truth, you've lied so much about every little thing and shoved so many undeclared ads into every piece of content that nobody will ever believe you again.

Ironically, that book cover picture looks worryingly close to Ruby's recent outfits as well.
 
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pinkmug

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An empty gap year could be bliss. I was struggling really hard towards the end of my degree, I barely made it through the exams and the thought of moving on with life was enough to make me crumble. I was also lucky to have a supportive family, they didn't mind I was literally in bed from sun up until midnight when I went to sleep again. Barely existing was what I needed and it helped me, I wouldn't care if someone wanted to be a complete potato after a rough time, especially if they can afford it. Ruby is just so adamant on coming off as the structured queen that she isn't, she's turning this year into a creative marathon when it's just a buffer area to postpone adulthood even more. I wonder what goes through her mind, she's always acting and pretending, not a bone in her body feels genuine in anything she does.
 
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springstudy

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She is soooo creepy. Like someone else said, if Jack Edwards literally wrote that he was going back to his old high school to “see who the head girl was :)” there would be a riot

This is another way as well for Ruby to bring back attention to a head girl as if it’s something to be proud of. By mentioning it, she’s validating it herself.

Why is she so obsessed with high school though? It’s frightening. She wasn’t even “peaked in high school” either as by her own words she got bullied. Is this what it is? She enjoys the time when she was bullied because she was the victim? She doesn’t like having to admit that her own faults and failures now are due to her and not cos three girls looked at her weirdly and called her a bookworm? Interesting
 
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yerdasellsavon

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I think the main reason Ruby is going back and clings onto being head girl and that short period of her life so much is the simple fact it makes her feel valued and important.

When you're Head Girl, you likely have a more friendly relationship with teachers, give speeches and are put on more of a pedestal in comparison to other pupils. Where you're at uni, you get none of that. You're just one fish in a massive pond; there's no relationship with lecturers (as much as Ruby tried to create them) and no parents evenings where they can shower her with praise. Most lecturers probably aren't even familiar with you on a first name basis. Ruby hates that; she wants to stand out and feel better than others in an academic field, which she got at school.

That's why she's desperate to cling onto it. As much as she says it's about others and recognising their achievements, it's about her. Teachers remembering her, saying how good she's doing, pupils coming up to her, imparting "wisdom". It's a very bizarre and very infantile ego trip for her.
 
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Ilaariaa

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You're not wrong, in the sense that I don't think it's fair to make extremely serious accusations based on very little. There was nothing wrong with Ruby acting in a mentor capacity when she was Head Girl at school, or more generally with young people she still knows in her day-to-day life (relatives, family friends, etc). The real problem is when she tries to do the same with people she doesn't know, like young fans and online followers (like the whole letter-writing thing). She's not a trained educational professional, there are no safeguarding checks in place, and quite frankly I don't think she's in a place to be giving out advice considering how much unhealthy behaviour she's promoted on her channel before. It's irresponsible at best.

I also think that, even if nothing remotely untoward is going on, Ruby's obsession with childhood is still concerning. She continues to visit her old school even though she left years ago, almost exclusively engages with children's media, dresses like she's eleven, and hardly ever spends time with people her own age. That is not normal behaviour whatever the cause is. It's not good for her, she needs to grow up and get help, and I think the people around her are enabling her by letting her do this.
She also isn't reaching out to young followers and online friends out of the kindness of her heart because she wants to mentor these girls: she's doing it because she has no friends her own age, she doesn't want any, and she seeks company with people she doesn't feel judged by/inferior to.
When she talks to people her own age she has to come to terms with how different she is from them in every aspect of her life and it's much harder to pretend that she's fine and everything is fine with the way she lives; but because she acts like a bookish 12 year old, if she hangs out with that demographic she can pretend she's one of them and there's nothing wrong with her life.

And moreover, it's just shady all around to befriend young teenagers online. First off, it's not a good thing to encourage: minors should not be giving away their details online or talk to (adult) strangers so intimately, which is what she tried to accomplish with her penpal scheme thing. Even if she specifically doesn't have ill intentions, the kids she's talking to will think it's good to befriend adults online and might end up in dangerous situations. She was literally trying to get kids under 12 to share their address and contact details with her.

Secondly, if she truly wanted to mentor and guide younger people, I'm sure there are lots of more appropriate ways to do it in real life rather than just talking to kids she met online. I'm sure there are a lot of programs that allow volunteers to work with kids, maybe tutoring them or coordinating activities, where you have young adults working with teenagers in a proper environment. If you want to guide and mentor younger girls that's the proper way to do it. You don't go on your Youtube channel with thousands of followers and put up a shady form requesting personal information to contact them privately.
 
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Griftwood

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She must not have been told she looks skinny in a while, because the ED-baiting is in full force. She takes a cold shower every morning, eats frozen fruit because ”it makes me feel good in myself”, and her newfound love of coffee is probably just a desperate attempt to kick her metabolism out of starvation mode.
 
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judgejohndeed

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Ruby should really look at Holly and realise doing a master's is not a good idea. With her grades, Ruby would walk into Oxbridge no problem, sure. But it's more of the same isn't it? Just more top grades, inevitably, no work experience etc. What's Holly doing with hers now, nothing by the looks of it.
If she really wants to be an author she would be better off doing a creative writing type master's - not offered at Oxbridge to my knowledge. For example, Sophie Mackintosh wrote The Water Cure during a similar course at Warwick and it was shortlisted for the Man Booker prize.
 
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rubysdeadfly

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I’d love her to try and live on a council estate relying on a tiny income to get by for a week.
pls no we don't need Alfie Deyes living on £1 a day again, I don' think she realises how privileged she is to be able to do the tiniest things like 'appreciating nature' during her morning walks, most people don't have free mornings to walk for an hour because they have walk and as a woman I wouldn't feel safe going on a walk alone because of where I live atm
 
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theMoth

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okay that's ... basically how you would protect a small child. and thinking that she should be protected from this hard world is dangerous. we all have to learn how to cope with different stages in our life, with difficult things we encounter. that's how we grow. knowing that the world isn't just flowers and tea and happy family and apple slices is important.
I'm not very mature for my age, but I faced a few difficult things and I'm sure you all did. Some things aren't nice and are very uncomfortable. Ruby has to learn that, too.
 
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Obviously y'all are entitled to talk about whatever you want but I find it a bit dumb when people make fun of Ruby for making literacy mistakes on social media like with the whole POV thing, I'm an english student too and I (hopefully lol) use correct grammar in essays but when writing stuff on texts/snapchat/insta idgaf 🤷 it's not that deep

Edit: and I'm not talking about that long post that was supposed to be showing off her writing, I'm talking about random insta captions
Yes but you're probably not getting brand sponsorships and making a living off social media. This is her job so she should be more professional. It's not some private page that only a couple dozen friends see. If she wants to promote herself as an author and also promote her stupid planners it should be treated as a business account.
 
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yerdasellsavon

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It's so obvious that Ruby is planning to go to Oxford for a Masters and her motivations for doing so are so apparent as well.

It's nothing to do with it being the best step for her career wise; she wants to be an author, so something creative would be the best step, which Oxford doesn't offer. She wants to go because it's her clinging onto a childhood dream, so if she gets in, not only (in her mind) is she vindicated after the bullies at Oxford didn't give her a place first time round, but she will be able to preach to her subscribers that everything works out in the end, just have to believe etc.

She'll be dreaming of posting "Study with Me at Oxford" and putting Oxford into every title and romanticising it at every opportunity. It's just like Jack Edwards, who applied about 3 separate times. It's sad that they place all their self-worth on a place at one university and can't move on or accept that perhaps (shocking as it may be to them) they aren't cut out there and there are (amazingly to them) other students who are more suited and more capable.

I wouldn't be surprised at all with a 76 if Ruby gets a place as at Masters-level there's no interview for her to trip up on. The content will be unbearable.
 
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Griftwood

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Still no Italy vlog. I thought the academic year ended already? Day late and a dollar short as usual, Roobee.

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I can’t, she’s legit pretending she’s back in school. ”Write thank you cards to your teachers! List your summer homework!”

Somewhat appropriately, her thank you card a has a picture of a literal short bus on it.

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Griftwood

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22 degrees is ”cold enough for a nice cardigan” and hot rooey-boss. If you ate a fucking meal every once in a while, Rootabaga, maybe you wouldn’t feel so cold all the time. Just a thought 💫✨ p.s. You’re balding ✨💫🙈

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gossip_guy

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I think that ignoring the fact she has some form of writing potential (even if it's simply the graft to sit down and write a full book) is done a lot here
Is that really an impressive feat if you have endless amounts of free time and no responsibility though? Anyone can joylessly fill words on a page one hour a day like Ruby does when they have the infinite pot of free time without responsibility that she has. Potential comes when there's some tiny amount of imagination and talent, however messy and raw, and Ruby has shown no improvement or imagination in anything. She can only write about herself, or things she's pulled from other books, and she hasn't grown better at even the basics of writing, like spelling, grammar and punctuation.

I've happily given her credit for writing a book and publishing it before. It was a complete mess - unfinished, unedited, thoughtless, highly derivative and poorly-written - but hey, at least she did it herself. You can't look at that final product and say Ruby didn't write and publish that all on her own at a young age. But Ruby herself doesn't consider that an accomplishment any more. She's erased it from history - she and her agent are hailing 'Lottie Potter and the Missing Child Depacle' as her debut book. She's self-identifying as an "aspiring" writer/author. Erimentha Parker doesn't count, because Ruby didn't get a £100,000 advance from Penguin Publishing for it.

She's pushing the same mentality that she does with grades onto books: You've not done your best unless you've gotten the highest grade possible, and you're not a writer unless you've been given a lucrative publishing contract. It's stupid, misguided and completely toxic. In Ruby's eyes, if you've self-published, you're not a writer. If you write for yourself, you're not a writer. If you haven't been given a three-book deal from Harper Collins, everything you've wrote means nothing.

It's yet another thing that she doesn't enjoy to begin with that she's turned into more and more of her toxic, competitive stupidity.
 
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