Off topic but what is Martha doing nowadays? Didn't she drop out of uni a while ago or am I making that up?
To be honest she looks more her age here than on any other picture... Not glorious but more realistic than the frail kid.
in her drop out video she said she was supposed to go to france to work but COVID happened so she changed plans and went to Uni instead to study a degree she thought she might "tolerate", (until she dropped out a few months ago realising she didn't like it)Off topic but what is Martha doing nowadays? Didn't she drop out of uni a while ago or am I making that up?
I spent like an hour trying to find the vlog where she talked about not needing to go to therapy anymore, but I also can't remember which one it was. (But I remember being annoyed by her sentiments about therapy at the time). Maybe it's one that she ended up deleting? But she does talk about her experience with therapy in a May 2020 video titled "an honest mental health update" or something to that effect. If she thought that therapy was at least sort of helpful and she wanted to prioritize her mental health, (as mentioned in her "I plan every minute of my life" video in Feb 2020) them why did she stop going? It's so obvious that staying home at the start of the pandemic caused her mental and physical health to take a complete nose dive, so why didn't she try to restart therapy at any point in the last two years? I don't believe she has gotten any mental health help since the start of the pandemic, which is a shame. In an effort to try to find that clip, I re-watched little bits of some of her old videos. She has always had her issues, but at least pre-pandemic she was more tolerable. She looked and acted a lot happier, she was healthier, and while she has always been a proponent of doing mindless busy work, at least she could string together a semi-coherent sentence back then. It really is a shame that her ED has ruined her life.I can't recall which video it was, but when vlogging leaving one of her therapy sessions she cheerfully announced that she'd completed her X number of weeks.
It's impossible to know for sure without more information, but given everything we know about Ruby, it gave the distinct impression to me that she just viewed therapy as another task to tick off (or part of the influencer starter pack that she only did because other influencers her age were openly talking about therapy so she had to do it, too).
After her last session, she rewarded herself by marking it complete and called it a day. She clearly still needed professional help, so it was bizarre to just stop going, and I can't see any therapist making any progress with her in such a short time.
It's entirely possible she's started going back and hasn't talked about it, but I doubt it since she's been on a downward spiral for the past year and a half. I can't imagine her being honest with a therapist, self-aware enough to acknowledge and admit her problems, or humble enough to want to accept that there's something wrong with her and that someone else can help. She's a narcissist and a compulsive liar, I can't see her opening up and being honest to a therapist, and a therapist can't do much if she won't.
That's so weird. It just got me thinking as I haven't seen Martha pop up for a while in Ruby's videos. She never seems to be around or involved when Ruby is at home, and there's no mention of her I don't think. It makes me wonder if Martha is even there?in her drop out video she said she was supposed to go to france to work but COVID happened so she changed plans and went to Uni instead to study a degree she thought she might "tolerate", (until she dropped out a few months ago realising she didn't like it)
idk what she's been up to recently but if she was moving to france to work after her a-levels...does that mean she wanted to become like an au pair or something like that? because i'm unaware (correct me if i'm wrong) that martha speaks any french
Don't take my word on this as I'm not sure, but I think a couple of threads ago we established that Marfa stayed in Sheffield (where she went to uni) to live and work after dropping out, so no she isn't at Casa De Bones.That's so weird. It just got me thinking as I haven't seen Martha pop up for a while in Ruby's videos. She never seems to be around or involved when Ruby is at home, and there's no mention of her I don't think. It makes me wonder if Martha is even there?
She was in her planning for deadline season video a couple of weeks ago I believe, filming a video in the kitchen. So seems like they're both bleeping around at home filming pointless youtube videos for the foreseeable futureDon't take my word on this as I'm not sure, but I think a couple of threads ago we established that Marfa stayed in Sheffield (where she went to uni) to live and work after dropping out, so no she isn't at Casa De Bones.
I don't know if it's a thing anymore but she might have been going to work at a ski resort, that seems more like something she would do! It's also the kind of work that would be heavily impacted by the pandemic.idk what she's been up to recently but if she was moving to france to work after her a-levels...does that mean she wanted to become like an au pair or something like that? because i'm unaware (correct me if i'm wrong) that martha speaks any french
Oh to have the privilege of being young, rich, and vacuous...She was in her planning for deadline season video a couple of weeks ago I believe, filming a video in the kitchen. So seems like they're both bleeping around at home filming pointless youtube videos for the foreseeable future
Damn she's really averaged under 22 words per day for the last 365 days"The English dissertation is an 8,000-word extended essay where students shape a distinctive research project in consultation with a member of academic staff."(found that on the Exeter website btw).
I genuinely can't understand how it took her a YEAR to write 8,000 words? I obviously understand it takes time to write, but a whole year and she is still making edits to it??
I know with my dissertation we had to start thinking about any potential topics at the very end of our second year so if Ruby had to do the same then technically she has been working on it for around a year, but 'working on it' doesn't necessarily mean writing it and from what we have seen it looks like she has been writing her dissertation for the past 3-4 months at max, not a WHOLE year like she claims. I mean it took her a good six months to choose a damn topic so there is absolutely no way she has been writing it for a year."The English dissertation is an 8,000-word extended essay where students shape a distinctive research project in consultation with a member of academic staff."(found that on the Exeter website btw).
I genuinely can't understand how it took her a YEAR to write 8,000 words? I obviously understand it takes time to write, but a whole year and she is still making edits to it??
I can imagine her feeling 'bullied' by a therapist who calls her out on her behaviors. I've definitely felt attacked by therapists in the past when they've pointed something out. I can't see her being capable of going back to someone who she feels is 'against her'. She sees the world in black and white. You're either obsessed with her, or a hater/bully.I can't recall which video it was, but when vlogging leaving one of her therapy sessions she cheerfully announced that she'd completed her X number of weeks.
It's impossible to know for sure without more information, but given everything we know about Ruby, it gave the distinct impression to me that she just viewed therapy as another task to tick off (or part of the influencer starter pack that she only did because other influencers her age were openly talking about therapy so she had to do it, too).
After her last session, she rewarded herself by marking it complete and called it a day. She clearly still needed professional help, so it was bizarre to just stop going, and I can't see any therapist making any progress with her in such a short time.
It's entirely possible she's started going back and hasn't talked about it, but I doubt it since she's been on a downward spiral for the past year and a half. I can't imagine her being honest with a therapist, self-aware enough to acknowledge and admit her problems, or humble enough to want to accept that there's something wrong with her and that someone else can help. She's a narcissist and a compulsive liar, I can't see her opening up and being honest to a therapist, and a therapist can't do much if she won't.
Omg 8000 words that’s so easy"The English dissertation is an 8,000-word extended essay where students shape a distinctive research project in consultation with a member of academic staff."(found that on the Exeter website btw).
I genuinely can't understand how it took her a YEAR to write 8,000 words? I obviously understand it takes time to write, but a whole year and she is still making edits to it??
Yeah, my English Lit dissertation had to be 10,000 words. Ruby had it easy and still fumbled it in every way.Omg 8000 words that’s so easyAt my uni we had to write minimum 50 pages🥲
she's probably ripping out what little hair she has left and is paralyzed from nerves.Are we not getting any more ”Mini daily study with my videos”?
KOINDLY sponsored by Perlego, of course!she's probably ripping out what little hair she has left and is paralyzed from nerves.
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