To me, I interpret making a list like this as something someone would do who isn't au fait for social interactions, and is definitely beyond the actions of a typical introvert. Again, suggestive of ASD.
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this one?
is that the video you were originally referring to? if so i see it as pretty normal to make a small list of people whose friendship you’d like to work on a bit more next year - i find that, especially with long distance friendships this year, it’s easy to not pay attention to your friends and neglect them a bit
She kept emphasising it had to be the perfect one..... just shove it on hun
Hate to break it to you but no this isn't normal
Yes, I do think there was an older video where she mentioned it too.
I have had online and long distance friendships my whole life, and beyond writing "remember to reply to x" on my to-do list, or making a mental note to talk to someone, I have never sat down and ranked my friendships. You can't have a clinical approach to friendships and you can't 'measure' how much attention someone gives you either.
We already know Ruby's forte isn't precisely social interactions.
oh no i didn’t mean ranking them of course! or writing down levels of attention, that is ridiculous - i simply sometimes make a note of being more present in certain friendships
So which one is the video where she ranks the friendships?
I've been trying to find it! I remember she wrote it down either on a piece of paper or notebook. But t hasn't been obvious to Google it. I do remember it was within this year or the one before.
hahaha i didn’t mean ranking friendships or whatever, just based on the video posted (which i don’t think is the right one) i don’t think she says anything particularly weird - defs nothing about a spreadsheet. but maybe you understood my comment right and i’m actually a freak lol
Hmm perhaps she deleted it
It definitely looks pretty young looking but I also think it's kind of cute. I actually like a lot of the individual pieces that Ruby has but most of them don't seem to fit her very well and she styles them quite immaturely. Like if you wore some boots and a denim/leather jacket with that dress it could look really cute but knowing Ruby she's going to wear white tights and ballet flatsIn defence of the dress, tbh I really like the style (not ironically and not as kinky tit), maybe it doesn’t scream childish to me because I think in my country that isn’t really something young girls would wear (?) Idk, I can see how she would simply like the style of it.
She’s so pretentious...saying she likes astrophysics is like me saying I love “fashion theory” cause I wear clothes, or I love “biochemistry” because I read some pop-science book. 
Trying to inflate her sense of self by equating very mundane interests to some important scientific or academic field.
Trying to inflate her sense of self by equating very mundane interests to some important scientific or academic field.You can crop bits out of videos, Unjaded Jade once told people to pretend they'd bought coffee by taking a keep cup into a cafe so they could stay for free and then cropped that section out after huge backlash, so maybe shes done that?
It would be hilarious to see her trying to have a conversation with Paige about astrophysicsShe’s so pretentious...saying she likes astrophysics is like me saying I love “fashion theory” cause I wear clothes, or I love “biochemistry” because I read some pop-science book.
It's the kind of thing someone like Liv Purvis would wear, but she'd pull it off well. I honestly think lifestyle comes into it a lot, like Ruby is trying to live like a school girl so that comes off weird, whereas someone like Liv would wear it but since she acts like a normal person in their twenties it wouldn't come across as strange.
I think it might be it, I remember there was definitely something like that and people were really shocked she would do that back then.
I also remember she did something similar in her kindness journal but it was like she would note down all little things she did for her friends and it was very cringey.
What the duck hahahaha I’m embarrassed for her
It’d be so awkward to be her friend, I know I’d wonder every time she contacted me whether she was just doing it to tick off a box in her kindness journal
And I like 'chemistry' because I like baking. Or I speak fluent Portuguese because I can speak two words of it.She’s so pretentious...saying she likes astrophysics is like me saying I love “fashion theory” cause I wear clothes, or I love “biochemistry” because I read some pop-science book.
It's all to make her sound more studious and impressive than she really is.
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