anyone else notice in Martha's instagram story, Ruby is the only one that doesn't have food
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Did you not see the crumb in front of her that's a healthy meal
So small human update my parents took him out today he has returned with a giant tortoise Teddyfam your contributions to this thread genuinely always make my dayYou'll be finding glitter in odd places for the next few years! And I hope your little one feels better soon!
When questioned apparently he clung onto and refused to leave the shop with out with it
Thanks parents and also has new peppa books to read which I'm not mad about as I think books are a good thing to have
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Not seeing any stories on Martha's profile, did she delete it or did it expire?
It still shows up for me, it was put up 11 hours ago
I cant see it
Am I the only one that thinks Ruby doesn't have an ED? From the pictures she posts with her family and the ones of her in a wetsuit in Devon, she looks like a perfectly healthy 21 year old. She's probably not quite right in the head though in the sense perhaps she wishes she had an ED and puts up a persona around "having" an ED - i.e. ED baiting.
Eating disorders aren't solely about appearance, and the red flags that have been raised have only been partially to do with her appearance/weight loss. There's also the constant tiny portions and fixation on food (e.g. stretching out tiny portions by cutting up/elaborately positioning small amounts of food, endless to-do lists related to food), vaguely alluding to health issues and weight loss but refusing to go into specifics, various other isolated signs. There's absolutely no proof or direct confirmation that she does or doesn't have an ED, or whether she's just baiting - opinions on this thread have varied - but behaviours and weight loss are definitely two separate (but related!) components of an eating disorder. She could have genuine symptoms of anorexia or another ED without it necessarily showing in an obvious way on her family's photos.
I know someone who actually faked an ED, he's an absolute overall mole. Ruby is not faking it, she might be dealing with binging outside of her tiny portions.
So he's already at a higher reading age than Ruby.
During my ED and subsequent “recovery” (I say this, because true recovery didn’t start until I left that world behind) I followed quite a lot of people on the tumblr/IG “recovery community” (nite continued use of air quotes!)
One girl in particular was obsessed with sharing photos of food, often elaborate, quite rich food and doing a very good speech about how she was conquering her fears and “showing ana who’s boss” (
I can’t stand the word ana!)She also had a sister who was quite big on IG, just not the recovery community (she posted about lifestyle/feminism and I really loved her content) a similar thing happened, where she’d share stuff on her stories of them all at a cafe, and everyone else would have milky coffees and cake - her sister would be there with a black coffee. Not even a milk jug in sight.
Yet a week earluer there was a post on her feed with a cappuccino, saying how she would never go back to black coffee… the point is: it’s very easy to curate what you want people to see on your own social media, but this can be so far from the truth.
One thing I have noticed in a few of Ruby’s videos now, is that she will have a breakfast of porridge/cereal and then the next clip will show her having toast for a ‘second breakfast’ or morning snack because she was “still hungry.” I really struggle to believe this.
mid be interested to see if she’s wearing the same outfit, because we know that she mixes around footage from different times/days and I widely suspect this is the case. I could be wrong, obviously, but it all reminds me too much of what this girl did; and many others, I must add! I just vividly remember her because of how performative her content seemed.
I also know that I said the same lies to my mother. When she picked me up from Uni one day, I would literally grab an empty wrapper of something to be holding as she walked in, to try and make out I’d just eaten it - utterly ridiculous! And foe anyone who might be reading and thinks that’s a “good idea” and aid their deception (Ruby included). Behaviour like that almost cost me my degree - well did, for the two years I had to take out.
re: Ruby’s appearance, I agree with what someone else just wrote, that often what we talk about isn’t appearance related. Additionally, I want to highlight a specific area of her appearance that I often pick up on - and others do - which could be true at any weight! Her face, namely her eyes and skin.
One of the worst points out my own ED occurred when I was still a “healthy weight”. It was also a time when I looked particularly unwell- my parents’ words, not my own - and all of this was down to my face. My eyes were dead, my smile was so forced (very similar to what I see with Ruby now) and the bags under my eyes could hold Ruby’s entire library!
The starvation, alongside other behaviours at the time, showed. Conversely, when my weight was much lower many years later, but I was several weeks into proper recovery, my face looked so much healthier. I want to stress that this doesn’t mean “health” and I kept restoring weight until it was healthy again! But nourishment shows in more ways than the number on a scale.
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You're not wrong. This is exactly what she does and it's been proven many times at this point.
She also knows exactly how blatant it is, and how utterly unbelievable it is, but rather than not do it or be honest, she doubles down on bare-faced lies. So we get blatant lies like, "And, yes, I do change my outfits a lot." Ruby, nobody changes their outfits six times a morning, you lying little swamp goblin.
Guaranteed, any time she's eating a "second breakfast" or "new meal", she's wearing a new outfit, or her nail colour is different, but chipped, or the time on her watch doesn't match the time she claims. It's one of the reasons she combines footage from numerous days into one "day in my life" video: She can have lots of footage of her taking tiny bites of nutritionally-bankrupt "meals" all together to make it seem like she eats far more in a day than she actually does. That and it allows her to show herself accomplishing more in a day than anyone else physically can, because it was actually shot over a month.
She's a compulsive liar, and not a remotely convincing one.
I'm also not able to see it. Please could you post a link to it?
I wouldn’t be surprised if she honestly believes that the Ruby Granger she presents in those videos is the "true Ruby". Those fictitious days in her life are how she would live every single day, if not for those pesky external factors that always in the way. But those aren’t her fault, because how can she help it if the library doesn’t have the book she needs for her course, or she doesn’t feel like reading book XYZ today, or the essay question was totally unfair, or Notion crashed, or her parents come into her room to ask such inane questions as if Ruby could please clean up her room, or she can’t find the right aesthetic for the notes she wants to rewrite for the third time, or … You know, things that never happen to anyone else, only to Ruby. So really, she isn’t lying, she is the queen of productivity! It’s just that the world always gets in her way specifically. Cutting together footage from several days is fair play to level out the playing field.
The ”second breakfast” bull is so ridiculous, she must really think all her followers are idiots. If she was genuinely still hungry after breakfast, you’d think her pea-brain would form the idea of a bigger bowl of porridge sooner or later… but she keeps on doing it. And changing outfits between breakfasts 
Her latest video is one of the few occasions that she's made some tiny degree of effort to keep some amount of consistency in her outfit changes between footage, or was careful to only use footage from 2-3 days rather than the usual 6+, but she still ducks up. She wears the same dress, but the footage flits back and forth between her wearing a dark brown button-up cardigan and a black V-neck pullover on top of the dress - she no doubt thought that'd be close enough to fool everyone.
You'll also notice that despite mentioning having toast after her nightmare courgette breakfast concoction, she doesn't even bother with the now obligatory shot of her taking a single, disgusting, grimacing bite before cutting away, undoubtedly after she dumped the rest in the bin. Guaranteed, she never ate any of it, and she always uses the same toast plate to aid in including quick insert shots of previous days' breakfasts.
First shot is her "making her bed", which is her usual process of dumping all her pillows on the dirty, dusty ground, not changing (or even adjusting) her bedsheets, half-assedly shifting her duvet (the same penguin cover she's had on for half the year) and then throwing all the filthed-up pillows back on the bed, ready to sleep on. What a disgusting cretin.
Claims to be reading "A Picnic on Hanging Rock". As well as bleeping up the name, this is a book she claimed to finish on July 28th, which gives an idea how old this footage is.
"I want to get a lot of stuff done today." Immediately starts wasting time on making timetables for the day rather than actually doing anything productive.
She qualifies wrapping a birthday present for a friend and writing birthday cards as "admin", showing yet again that she treats the few friendships she has like tasks to be completed.
Of course, then her outfit changes completely, and she makes a note to point out that it's because of an unseen "bike ride" that no doubt never happened. Always be suspicious when she makes excuses for something trivial like that - methinks the dimwit liar doth protest too much. They have an off-screen family meal that, again, likely never happened and no food is shown, then Ruby shows a disgusting small bowl of some kind of sludge with a few banana slices in, which is presumably her actual meal.
It's a "day in the life" video that's equal parts lies and exposition as Ruby tells us about the day that happened off-screen rather than showing it (likely because it didn't happen).
You'll also notice that despite mentioning having toast after her nightmare courgette breakfast concoction, she doesn't even bother with the now obligatory shot of her taking a single, disgusting, grimacing bite before cutting away, undoubtedly after she dumped the rest in the bin. Guaranteed, she never ate any of it, and she always uses the same toast plate to aid in including quick insert shots of previous days' breakfasts.
First shot is her "making her bed", which is her usual process of dumping all her pillows on the dirty, dusty ground, not changing (or even adjusting) her bedsheets, half-assedly shifting her duvet (the same penguin cover she's had on for half the year) and then throwing all the filthed-up pillows back on the bed, ready to sleep on. What a disgusting cretin.
Claims to be reading "A Picnic on Hanging Rock". As well as bleeping up the name, this is a book she claimed to finish on July 28th, which gives an idea how old this footage is.
"I want to get a lot of stuff done today." Immediately starts wasting time on making timetables for the day rather than actually doing anything productive.
She qualifies wrapping a birthday present for a friend and writing birthday cards as "admin", showing yet again that she treats the few friendships she has like tasks to be completed.
Of course, then her outfit changes completely, and she makes a note to point out that it's because of an unseen "bike ride" that no doubt never happened. Always be suspicious when she makes excuses for something trivial like that - methinks the dimwit liar doth protest too much. They have an off-screen family meal that, again, likely never happened and no food is shown, then Ruby shows a disgusting small bowl of some kind of sludge with a few banana slices in, which is presumably her actual meal.
It's a "day in the life" video that's equal parts lies and exposition as Ruby tells us about the day that happened off-screen rather than showing it (likely because it didn't happen).
All of this. Thank you for the dedication to de-constructing the lies.
I’m sure there’s an Unjaded Jade rave thread you could hop along to
And today, Ruby "I Always Support Small Businesses" Granger shows Insta stories from her trip to Winchester, where she avoided awesome-looking independent used book shops like P&G Wells, Kingsgate Books & Prints, The Winchester Book Shop and instead made a beeline to give yet more free advertising to Waterstones and Anthropologie.
She also apparently liked the attention she got for pretending to read and love The Song of Achilles as she's now chosen Circe as the top contender for the next book she'll pretend to read.
She also apparently liked the attention she got for pretending to read and love The Song of Achilles as she's now chosen Circe as the top contender for the next book she'll pretend to read.
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I'm hoping that's pure sarcasm.
Ruby's video production skills are equivalent to (and usually less than) those of a drunk monkey let loose in an editing bay. The only difference is, the monkey will sober up. Ruby's proven in six years of doing this that she's never going to improve - if anything, she's gotten lazier and less skilled with time.
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