Agreed! People (mostly vegans) on the internet can often be really critical of 90-something% "vegans" ("So you're okay with animal abuse, just 2% of the time???"). Which is understandable, because there are also people expecting vegan praise for their baby steps, like "meatfree mondays" or "pesco-ovo-vegan 3 days a week".
Regardless of that, I don't think we should be too harsh on Ruby's "vegan slip-ups", assuming she is trying to recover from an ED which could be intertwined with the whole vegan thing as well. Like, ordering something with honey in it instead of ordering nothing at all may be a 'good sign' in that sense.
I just hope she doesn't say something like this when people inevitably point it out, lol.