So a 100% is solely reserved for God?80% (and higher) is still a First, but regarded as 'publishable material'. It's very rare to achieve 80% or higher in an essay.
So a 100% is solely reserved for God?80% (and higher) is still a First, but regarded as 'publishable material'. It's very rare to achieve 80% or higher in an essay.
If she's getting consistent 75s even though she's borderline illiterate and her study techniques are insanely inefficient, I imagine she'd be getting the same marks or higher with a fraction of the effort if she just listened to feedback and worked efficiently.Bit in bold: I once got a 90 on an essay. Utter fluke, though very welcome, and I obviously never managed anything close to it again, but you know, I didn't aim to.
It's probably a good thing Ruby hasn't hit those 80+ marks for an essay, because that would be her new personal benchmark going forward. Not saying you shouldn't strive to do well, but if you're doing excellent work (and her grades are excellent), there's really no need to push yourself to be exceptional instead.
The whole video was actually pretty depressing. She can't handle constructive criticism at all.
She'll just follow tutors home and loudly read textbooks aloud through their letterbox until they agree to give her the full mark to get her to leave.I did English at Exeter and if I recall correctly the participation score was only a thing for second year modules (might have changed now)
Everyone hated it and it made the smugly clever and talkative seminar group members even more insufferable lol. My friends and I only ever got 60s/70s max when attending regularly and contributing - I dread to think what kind of participation would elicit an 85.
Of course. Why do you think Ruby expected a 100?So a 100% is solely reserved for God?
The story of the brownies had me on an emotional rollercoaster. Erimentha could never...I was very annoyed so I made another one following my usual recipe and it turned out good this time. So all was well in the end![]()
I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt that it was a physical health condition causing this - or even something like emetophobia/ OCD (she has mentioned this before so not armchair diagnosing). In other words, a mental health condition that isn’t an ED specifically.I really wonder what made Ruby want to lose weight initially, what triggered her potential ED? She used to be at a healthy weight and she seemed to enjoy a diversity of foods, I rewatched some of her vlogs in her first year at Uni and although she was already restricting (going vegan), she still bought a lot of food and ate decent portions. She didn't seem obsessed with tiny portions or with the same boring food like peas or yogurt bowl with a quarter of a banana...
Yup! And even her more recent Pumpkin Productivity Insta posts have food pictures all over them. She's not just advertising her own unhealthy eating habits, she's directly associating small, unhealthy portions with productivity for all who view her posts. She knows exactly what she's doing, and it's inexcusable.What’s more, even if she didn’t want to disclose specifics, she could have said “health reasons not related to an eating disorder.” Now, if it IS an eating disorder and she doesn’t want to disclose that - again, I would respect that decision, speaking as someone who had that very illness. Yet I would respect it (as I think has been mentioned) for Ruby BONES. Or even Ruby “Granger”, if her content was focused on studying, or even the occasional Victorian routine video.
I cannot respect it for content that includes: eating like a Victorian CHILD for a day; constant “outfits of the day” that never used to feature; a growing focus on food content; connecting with another YouTuber who is in ED RECOVERY, whose followers accordingly found and possibly followed Ruby.
She's so dumb and immature. I'm being harsh but that is no way to approach university. Your lecturers are there to teach you, if you think you already know everything what are you doing there?I think the issue with her ability to take constructive criticism is that so much of her self worth and identity is tied up in academics. She’s not hearing that her argument was flawed or expressed incorrectly, she’s taking it as a personal attack. Doesn’t help that she’s probably spent her life being overly praised for every little thing up til now within her own little bubble - and anything that didn’t fit that bill was just nasty and jealous bullying.
What university taught me was how little I know. To be going into your third/fourth year and still think that you’ve got a lot to teach your lecturers is just … odd.She's so dumb and immature. I'm being harsh but that is no way to approach university. Your lecturers are there to teach you, if you think you already know everything what are you doing there?
She's infuriatingly ignorant and entitled.
It's tough to speculate, but I imagine this past year hasn't done her any favours, and I wonder if staying at uni instead of running home would've helped curb her habits any. Moving back home during covid has really encouraged her worst tendencies and kicked her desire to regress into childhood into high gear. She's always had those tendencies, but being alone at home where her situation hasn't encouraged socialising and she hasn't had to act like a grown-up probably exacerbated her issues. She replaced her double bed with a single. She's dressed younger and younger. And I imagine losing weight has been part of her attempting to make herself look younger, as people here have speculated.I really wonder what made Ruby want to lose weight initially, what triggered her potential ED? She used to be at a healthy weight and she seemed to enjoy a diversity of foods, I rewatched some of her vlogs in her first year at Uni and although she was already restricting (going vegan), she still bought a lot of food and ate decent portions. She didn't seem obsessed with tiny portions or with the same boring food like peas or yogurt bowl with a quarter of a banana...
She probably believes she's the real teacher in the room. I can just picture her non-stop interrupting the lecture and trying to "correct" the teacher and "educate" the other students.She's so dumb and immature. I'm being harsh but that is no way to approach university. Your lecturers are there to teach you, if you think you already know everything what are you doing there?
She's infuriatingly ignorant and entitled.
I don’t think she’s ever been told no, until the Oxford rejection.I think the issue with her ability to take constructive criticism is that so much of her self worth and identity is tied up in academics. She’s not hearing that her argument was flawed or expressed incorrectly, she’s taking it as a personal attack. Doesn’t help that she’s probably spent her life being overly praised for every little thing up til now within her own little bubble - and anything that didn’t fit that bill was just nasty and jealous bullying.
I imagine she will go to therapy sooner or later and the therapist will ask her what exactly she is avoiding by filling her days so much and she will break.If she's getting consistent 75s even though she's borderline illiterate and her study techniques are insanely inefficient, I imagine she'd be getting the same marks or higher with a fraction of the effort if she just listened to feedback and worked efficiently.
I don't think she's ever come close to realising that busywork does not equal productivity. She fills her day with lots of activity that provides her with the illusion of being productive, but it's mostly redundant lists, notes, checklists and reminders that serve no value other than to fill time.
This is becoming really strange now... why post other peoples food if you’ve got none yourself?View attachment 645578
Unless she's ditched veganism for fish and chips, her new alternative to posting triggering images of her food is apparently to just show other people's food instead? Just stop posting images of food! It's not hard!
And especially her being vegan lol like generally vegans don't go around posting pictures of other people's plates with dead animals in themThis is becoming really strange now... why post other peoples food if you’ve got none yourself?
It feels like she’s panicking, and rather than just stopping posting photos of food altogether she’s decided that posting pictures of more food will somehow fix things. Like this is somehow evidence that she’s actually eating properly even though we know none of this is for her. Basically overcompensating. Ruby if you just stop posting pictures of food completely that will put an end to all this! You can eat what you want, but it will stop all speculation. It won’t be taken as evidence that you’re eating nothing, people will just forget about it.This is becoming really strange now... why post other peoples food if you’ve got none yourself?