Honestly, I’m soooooo glad I didn’t watch any of her grades videos when I was doing Eng Lit at uni been now I’ve graduated from my MA with a distinction Diss and have a good job I watch them and I just feel shitty afterwardsGod shes such a brat isn't she? In her new "reacting to my 2nd year Grades" video every time she reads a bit of constructive criticism from her lecturers [even when her mark is really good!!!!] she says "I don't agree with that"
And this, in her mind, will be the end of it. Just like her 24 hour break from Instagram that nobody noticed after she took a bunch of money from a charity, she believes she's solved the problem. Case closed. I was about to give her genuine credit and respect for that OOTD picture as it looked like a step towards change and the first time she's thought of her audience (even if it likely wasn't her idea.)Very interesting that she’s also chosen to do it in the comments of a post that isn’t her most recent any more, I know it’s in the post where most concern was shown but it does mean that it’s very hard to find
This is such a good apology and definitely what she should have said, not that random "I'm sorry you feel that wayAnd this, in her mind, will be the end of it. Just like her 24 hour break from Instagram that nobody noticed after she took a bunch of money from a charity, she believes she's solved the problem. Case closed. I was about to give her genuine credit and respect for that OOTD picture as it looked like a step towards change and the first time she's thought of her audience (even if it likely wasn't her idea.)
But this post of hers is disgusting. It's a "sorry you chose to be offended" non-apology in the least visible place she could find. She he will absolutely return to posting triggering content before the week's out and if anyone complains, she'll ignore it, or point to this "you're the problem, not me, but I'll take the high ground and wish you glad tidings, peasants!" unpology as what she believes is a Get Out of Jail Free card.
The irony of her having a 'Protect Each Other' sticker on that vaccine picture of herself when she's spent months encouraging ED habits and knowingly baiting people with an ED is astounding.
Here, Ruby, I fixed your apology. It took like 5 minutes. What's your excuse?
"There have been a lot of comments recently regarding my physical appearance following my recent weight loss, and I just wanted to acknowledge and address them.
Firstly, I want to thank each and every person who has reached out. These comments have invariably come from a place of care and concern, and that means the world. I appreciate every one of you, and your words of love and consideration mean the world.
My physical appearance and weight loss isn't something I feel comfortable talking about openly or publicly. I truly hope you can understand and respect that.
That being said, as an influencer in the public I, I fully understand that I have a responsibility to ensure that the things I show of myself and my content do not impact others negatively. In this instance, and many others, I've let you down, and I can only apologise for that from the bottom of my heart.
While social media only shows a fraction of what someone eats and how they life their life, in the moment we see an image online, that's the whole picture in that moment. I've put images and videos of food and habits that are unhealthy and that have negatively impacted others and not given proper thought or consideration to the damage they could cause to someone who viewed them as normal or healthy.
I've promoted unhealthy eating habits and posted content that would be triggering to anyone currently dealing with or recovering from an eating disorder. I posted these things without fully thinking how someone on a different journey might view these posts and be affected by them.
This wasn’t done intentionally, but ignorance, immaturity and thoughtlessness are no excuse. I can only apologise from the bottom of my heart to anyone I might have hurt with my posts. I am striving to learn and to do better as a person and as someone with a platform of influence. Influencers are fortunate to have a voice which is heard by a great many people, many of them young and impressionable, and those people deserve better.
I have a responsibility to people to help encourage positive habits or just to shield them from negative ideas and images. I can do better. I will do better. And I hope you continue with me as I try, and pledge to listen and put more thought into what I put into the world and how it affects others.
While I don't wish to discuss my personal weight loss and hope you understand my wish for privacy in that regard, there are a lot of people dealing with weight issues or eating disorders who do want help, or someone to talk to. Eating disorders are a dangeous, crippling disease that affect a great many people and those around them. If you or anyone you know are struggling with an eating disorder, please know that help is available, and that there are people you can talk to. (Include big list of NHS links and ED helplines and charities here.)
I have main a donation to the charity Beat, which offer an array of support options for victims of eating disorders and actively works to encourage healthy eating habits. I hope you join me in doing the same and supporting the vital work they do. Help is available if you need it. Be safe, and remember that you are loved."
(Post to main channel where people actually see it.)
How hard was that?
you put it into words perfectly, this is literally what I thought back in my ED days when someone skinny talked about their small food portion”I recognize this is not what the average person would eat, but I’m skinny and have self-control, so this is all I’m going to eat”
I'd guess that she's pretty unhappy with these marks, but from her perspective, if she shows signs of anything other than being fine with it, people will pile onto her (her A-level results video, the one about the first formal grade from university, that kinda thing).Also she doesn't look motivated at all during the video and what on earth was she saying?: "I should be happy with it, but I'm not entirely happy with it. Look, I am happy with it ..."Can't stand this, I'm out.
Yep. I was trying to put it into words yesterday and gave up. Her apology for posting triggering content was triggering in itself because my (albeit 98% recovered) ED brain read it as her bragging about how little food she eats and feeling validated by all the concerned comments.you put it into words perfectly, this is literally what I thought back in my ED days when someone skinny talked about their small food portion
I can't remember each one, but I think she got 76 for her second year overall and her lowest exam mark was 67 (which she was wincing at and it brought one of her module marks down "LOADS!" to 73).Would anyone mind recapping what marks she got? I can't bring myself to watch the video.
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