Rosie hen if you're listening a few wee things....
You do care who's saying what, you absolutely care, intact I'd go so far as to say you're addicted to it.
Your partner and pals are shite. If my partner dared speak to me like Mater has you, he would never see me again. He'd be blocked on everything. As for the pals they have let you go live when you're hysterical, they've created a circus and they're letting it happen. If I was in a state after a failed relationship I'd want a pal to cut the live, not sit there and shout and scream at folk on the other end. The pals want a drama and a gossip and a laugh, they don't care about you, those beautiful souls that are messaging you aren't they want a reaction. The only most sensible pal I've heard is James Mac telling you you were out of order and to stop going live and plastering everything everywhere..
Stop looking to these idiotic people to provide attention, it's the wrong attention. Do you know who will provide attention and love? Your weans. Spend time with them, enjoy them, do normal stuff with them, take them to the park, the zoo, the cinema, have movie nights with sweets and blankets, stop inviting idiots into their home to behave like animals. The kids will soon be older teenagers and you'll not get a look in. Those two kids didn't ask to be here. It's your responsibility as a Mum to stop this and harm them no further.