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Rhitrition #2 Rhi could do with a huge cake; so many ads now, such a fake
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It's almost like she has delusions of grandeur, similar to the derogatory remark that used to be made about paid or unpaid 'servants'. It's actually rather offensiveThank goodness the ‘help’ are back. The smugness in the language!! Why not say my sister/dad/nanny/friend/husband has Z today, so I can keep T cool?! Why, why, why, does she think ‘help’ is appropriate?
It's simple with rhiannon - she always wants to be seen as what she thinks is "better than" aka part of the upper echelons of society. She's easy to read. She doesn't sound better off, she sounds disgusting. "Help" - call the person what they are e.g. if it's a friend/parent/nanny/childminder - "help" indeed as already said on here...sounds derogatory.
Hate the term. On a labour post I think she referred to her husband and mum and then “help” which makes me think paid. if it’s a friend with a high follower count she certainly doesn’t pass up the chance to tag…
She really has written her husband totally out of her life on instagram. She didn’t do this when Zachary was born, anyone new to her account would genuinely think she was a struggling single parent. I used to like her podcasts so much, but have changed my opinion on her massively, I genuinely
Think she needs a lot of therapy and she needs it now, so many serious issues need addressing.
Think she needs a lot of therapy and she needs it now, so many serious issues need addressing.
Yeah I think using the word help means the help is paid. Otherwise why wouldn't you just say 'my mum has Zachary' or 'Zachary is with his aunt' etc. One thing I've found with influencers is that followers only get annoyed when they're not upfront about these things and try to hide them. If she'd just said she had a nanny or childminder I don't think anyone would be bothered, but trying to disguise it under a vague term (especially one with such negative connotations) is what gets people's backs up.
I think she just refers to everyone as “help” tbh. It’s her attempt at being “private”. Her husbands clearly asked not to be featured, but I don’t see why she can’t even talk about him it’s very misleading
Hes never wanted to be featured, but she never wrote him out of hers or Zs life like she is now, he’s had one horrible mention about fainting at the birth and then it’s been all about her, how hard her life is, how she’s managing so much alone, incredibly disingenuous of her.
So fed up with her negative posts. Rhi, if you cant handle two kids WHY DID YOU CHOSE to put yourself, husband and kids through this? Just because Lucy M and Tessa went for it? You could have just waited until you were mentally and physically stable! My husband and I live in London, I have a 23 month old Boy who is TODDLERING & a 5 month old little Girl who was born preemie and please NOTE- we have 0 family around us, so no help. My husband had to reject a Director role because he would be away a lot more then he is right now and he has already been away 3x during the heatwaves for like a week each time & yes do I think its hard- HELL YES, do I cry a lot? YES but man, i dont flipping show a long face every single day- she COMES ACROSS SO SO SO NEGATIVE! Get a grib Rhi, its not fun looking at your page anymore. You legit want to be pitied. Be thankful, grateful and feel blessed. We ALL KNOW HOW HARD TWO little children are but like this you’ll lose your friends too. You legit arent the only person who has to juggle all of this + you have so many MEANS that can help you. Get yourself together girlfriend.
I’m starting to think she may have PND tbh. All her posts seem a desperate cry for help. If I were her husband or friends I’d be wrapping an arm around her and giving her some support.
Hilarious though her so called bestie Alice who works an hour a week hasn’t bothered to come and see her!
As you say, there’s a difference between normal struggles and just complaining for the hell of it!
Also LoL at her post where she says she doesn’t label foods as good and bad, but then makes about about how Z is having his first McDonalds because she is unwell.
Grow up Rhiannnon - lots of people treat their toddler to the occasional McDonald’s and not just because they are ill!
Agree about the PND, she seems to be finding every day overwhelming. I'm 2 months in with a baby and a toddler, both similar ages to her kids, and we've found our groove a bit now. Not a routine by any means but the days aren't a huge struggle anymore. We've all adjusted and things have settled down. I'm lucky enough to have my partner around more than hers, but she has lots of other help that we don't have at all.
I do feel she puts certain expectations on herself and then stresses herself out trying to meet them. The whole getting out for a walk every day - obviously it's good to get out but it's also fine to have days where you don't, especially with a newborn! I bet she always makes a fuss of cooking fresh too. Sometimes it's alright to have freezer tapas Rhi. Fish fingers chips and peas is a tasty meal for all ages
I do feel she puts certain expectations on herself and then stresses herself out trying to meet them. The whole getting out for a walk every day - obviously it's good to get out but it's also fine to have days where you don't, especially with a newborn! I bet she always makes a fuss of cooking fresh too. Sometimes it's alright to have freezer tapas Rhi. Fish fingers chips and peas is a tasty meal for all ages
Though I see where the PND comments are coming from, I've followed her for years and she's always been like this. She was like this with Zachary, moaning all the time. She was like it with anything she could find before she had kids too. I think she is just moany and very highly strung.
Yeah I mean she’s even like it about her cat. There’s always a drama with aurora (stupid name for a cat) too. She just likes to feel hard done by and like she has it worse than anybody else. If it’s not the kids then it’s the neighbours being loud or something else ridiculous that anybody else would just get on with.
She loved that Z was born the week of the (first) peak of covid because to her that meant that she had it worse than everybody else and she never stopped mentioning it.
She loved that Z was born the week of the (first) peak of covid because to her that meant that she had it worse than everybody else and she never stopped mentioning it.
Yup. I had a baby at a similar time to when she had Z and yeah it was tough but becoming a parent is always tough!
I saw today she was celebrating Z making an Aah sound. It seems like he is extremely far behind in his speech if she think that is something to celebrate. No judgment on her, but I hope for her sake he doesn’t turn out to have any special needs because I honestly don’t know how she would cope with not having a ‘perfect’ child.
She seems to attribute his speech delay on him having a tongue tie which went undiagnosed
however this isn't usually the case and having tongue tie interventions won't necessarily help any speech delay...and is often an unnecessary procedure
- it's quite possible he may have global speech delay ....which has been seen in quite a large number of lockdown babies as they haven't had same opportunities to socialise. ....hopefully some intensive interactions will help as well as mixing with other children at playgroup/nursery
Do think Rhi is highly strung and will be "that mum" at school!
Agreed on tongue tie, I think unless it’s really severe it’s unlikely to impact speech?
As I say, no shade on her at all if he does have a problem, she just seems to struggle when anything is less than perfect and the fact she vents constantly on insta shows her support network is extremely limited.
Wonder if it's linked to his seizures, she mentioned he was having brain scans and things. He seems like a very sweet kid and I'm sure Rhi will be getting him all the help he needs (and probably more).
Yeah absolutely,she doesn’t in any way seem like a neglectful parent. Hope he is ok, agree he is very sweet.