So many things to say about this.
1. If you don't want people to comment, don't plaster your kids all over social media
2. The mum might have been offering genuine advice. I mean, Rhi didn't know you could read to a baby, so she may not have known when swaddling should be discontinued.
3. We've seen that she puts Theo in a separate room when he naps. So she doesn't have eyes on him. Camera is not the same and means there's a delay if something did happen, god forbid. Also it is recommended to sleep in same room as you to help their breathing.
Sooooo condescending!!