Oh it’s completely a thing. When I was an inpatient you’d be more afraid when your friends suddenly became calm and rational, it meant that they’d given up. I think so many 90s stars were just left to fester and not properly supported at all, it no wonder they were so down
Yeah I totally get that. I watched my grandpa pass a few years ago (vascular dementia, not suicide) and the day I walked in and he was sat in his chair and making jokes after weeks of lying in his bed holding his wife’s hand or asking for my granny, I knew he at peace with it being his time.