She would much rather give us the middle finger than do the right thing, she's too immature to actually take any of it on board.She’s a dick. We all know she reads here & she definitely would have caught up with this thread when the kittens were announced, so she would have read lots of people saying the kittens shouldn’t be handled, yet she carries on letting the boys do it. I really think it’s a ‘duck it, I’ll do what I want’ attitude with her. Same with the boys clothes, safety etc, she would rather be a selfish prick & be stubborn about it, than sit back & think ‘oh maybe I should take note of some of this’.