Heres my thoughts on why he won't leave her.
Steaver told his ex who was his age, who he lived with for years that if she wanted marriage and kids to look elsewhere. I don't see why that would have miraculously changed 12 months later because he got with an 18 year old.
He clearly loves the boys but the more things that are noticed on this thread I wonder more and more if he ever wanted any of this
I would say that the reason he won't leave her is because he worked at his dads company since he was 16 making a killing....... His job at his dads place is what paid for all the houses and luxuries over the years and if he ever tried to leave her she'd no doubt get the child support agency involved.
We've all seen how nasty and manipulative she can be...I'm not 100% sure how the CSA decides on what to divide... but I'm sure she'd lay it on thick to them that she needed the 400k house in order to be near Alfies school and maybe 2SS thinks that if he were to leave her the house would be automatically handed to her -plus probably a hefty amount of maintenance until the youngest child was 18 - and that would in a way be his dads money gone in a puff of smoke #gifted to a lazy greedy slob who he made the heinous error of spunking in without a condom....I cant believe im empathising with Steaver
but I would feel so upset if leaving my fiancee, even if i hated them, if it meant essentially handing over hundreds of thousands of pounds of my parents hard earned money, its certainly not something i'd go into lightly.
2SS would have done well to follow Jeremy Kyles advice....."should have put something on the end of it!!"