I’ve never even had a baby but the thunder stab in the vadge is real when I get a bad periodHave to say the the lightening crotch pain is real,!! but I have never once pissed myself either during pregnancy or after any of my 4 births.
I think the message people want to get out there is that it should be perfectly normal to discuss bladder weekness, but seek help! A lot of influencers seem to jump on this and declare that they regularly piss themselves and think it’s normal and funny with no encouragement to followers who experience similar to seek help and not accept it as normal part of being a woman