We brought our 8 week cockapoo home yesterday and am struggling already with his constant howling. He seems to have developed an attachment to me already (maybe because he sat on my lap for the 5hr car journey home) and howls every time I am more than 1 step away from him. As soon as I go over to him - even if just going close but not touching he calms down instantly but howls as soon as I step away again. I keep thinking he’ll tire but he doesn’t and just keeps going and going. I’m trying to crate train so ended up sleeping on the floor with my face super close to the door so he could see me/hear my breathing as it seemed to be the only thing to stop him howling all night. I was hoping he would be better today but keeps howling constantly when I put him in his playpen. We live in an apartment so am waiting on my neighbours banging on the door!
Do I need to just keep riding it out and hoping he’ll get used to me stepping away from him eventually? I’m trying not to give in to him too much and comfort/pick him up/cuddle him but it’s so hard
Cockapoos are velcro dogs, I have two and they are not a dog for those who don't want constant attachment.
For now, Id cuddle him, keep him close and give him lots of reassurance. He's just left his mum and siblings and is probably just a bit upset and confused right now. I know it seems counter productive but fostering that confidence now will pay off later on.
We have slept downstairs with both of ours when they came home, next to the crate and popped our hands through to settle them and it wasnt long until they were both sleeping through the night downstairs alone. There is 4 years between them so we've done it twice now.
Personally Id never leave my dogs to cry, I think it does more harm than good in the long run. I never left my kids to cry either.
A great resource if you have Facebook is a group called 'Cockapoo Owners Club' I have found it invaluable in the 5 years Ive been a cockapoo owner.
Also it is difficult, its hard and there will be *so* many times you want to take him back. I have been there x 2. It is normal, the puppy blues I call it. Youre doing a great job