Not overreacting at all. My daughters bf was like that. Drink and a mood ended up in battered knuckles from walls.. what was to say the next time it wouldn't be her. She didn't see it at the time, thankfully dumped him for another reason and can see what the worry was now.My 18 year old daughter and her bf came back to mine last night after the footie. I thought I could hear shouting so I got up to discover he had stormed out, after having a tantrum and throwing food all over my kitchen in a rage. He then came back to the door and said sorry but the way you (my daughter) spoke to me annoyed me. He also threw some of our garden furniture about on his way out. He’s not hit her but am I overreacting to consider this bordering on abusive?