PTWM #74 Stop making a t1t of yourself and pee off.

[DingAlings]

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My opinion on V has completely changed after she shared that video of Betsy in distress without her knowledge. They are just as bad as each other but don’t use a child in full time education to fuel the fire. Betsy has been extremely quiet since it was shared and I can’t see it being a coincidence. For all we know V could have filmed it herself if she was in the same room. Made me feel very uncomfortable and made me question the type of person V is also.

I must have missed this drama... v shared a video of Betsy? Can anyone fill me in on this please ?

 

[Maybebaby69]

Aaaannd I've been blocked off the home profile, I only commented once on something that didn't add up but blocky mc block fingers must have been hot on the keyboard it makes me SO mad that she just sensors all options that don't match hers..

 

[Dance1983]

I thought pull ups were for kids close to being potty trained? There’s no way wilby pulls them up and down himself
As for the whole announcement. The fact that she’s walked in grabbed a paint brush to make it look like she’s done all the work tells you everything you need to know about how authentic she is. The woman’s a compulsive liar. I’ll bet the first woman who walks into that place with tear stained eyes will be filmed for the gram.
Given how much she is hated in that community I doubt it will be very popular, but that suits her, she can always make up cases!

 

[EmilyChambers]

Just googled the street... my god,it looks like a right dive (no offence to anyone who lives near there ) by the sounds of it, it will become scammers Street

It used to be full of druggies in the flats above the shops when I lived down there.

It was the one street I was always told never to walk down after dark on my own

 

[Dorothy-redshoes]

It used to be full of druggies in the flats above the shops when I lived down there.

It was the one street I was always told never to walk down after dark on my own

Maybe thats where her pissy drug flat was lol

 

[EmilyChambers]

Was

I'm sorry to disappoint but I'm not connected. I have got form working with vulnerable people if that helps.

I just can't see what they're doing as a bad thing. I was intrigued by the pay pal thing initially but it's gone the same way as every other 'gotcha' as in it didn't get 'em.

It's getting to the point where you guys are trolling yourselves. And honestly I quite enjoy that aspect, I mean we've all got to get our kicks somehow

You keep telling yourself that.

She's an utterly despicable, thieving and abusive little bleep.

She's in no position to help vulnerable women at all.

She can't even follow basic safeguarding procedures and even gave away the address on her Instagram of a womans only safe house.

If brains were dynamite, that thick twit couldn't blow her own head off her shoulders.

Go and gush over her on her Insta but don't come here trying to defend her actions.

 

[CuppaT]

Coming from a domestic..child sexual..financial abuse background and I AM A SURVIVOR ..i am horrified and sickened by what this moron ptwm is hoping to achieve..i was living in Torbay at some parts of my past life and id be horrified if id been "signposted" to this charlatan..i was and probably still am very disturbed and destroyed and its taken probably another 20 years for me to feel nearly "normal" so to speak....the few women I encountered along my route were highly specialised professionals and some were also "volunteers who had been through similar" so could help empathise etc....all sounded great but he still found me and raped me and set my flat on fire with me and his daughter in....so I am bleeping horrified and disrespected by this..its made me cry and triggered my nerves all over again...she needs to be bleeping stopped!!!!!! Ps..sorry but if V etc are knowing anything and staying quiet then they are complicit in what will happen to the next generation of victims

 

[TheTruthWouldBeNice]

I forgot to add that the comment about the donations was in hidden comments, she must have muted the word donations as well

She's going for the Jigsaw look again today. Do you want to play a game Rach? View attachment 540247

she looks so different. Lips, cheeks, everything.

 

[AnotherMrsJones]

Some of our Tattle members have had me in tears these last couple of days, I've lead such a sheltered life so reading your stories has opened my eyes, DA comes in numerous forms, my heart goes out to each one of you who has shared your story with us, you are the heros thank you for being so brave and sharing with us, sending you all virtual ((((hugs)))) which is in all fairness probably more than you'd get from Rachet and her cronies

 

[DeathToCovid]

Fluffy clouds for all, because:

That’s tit babe

 

[Velvet Hour]

It’s so obvious R reads here and controls what Betsy posts.

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Of course she does it’s all about promoting and protecting the PTWM and patchwork brands!!

 

[Youre a wizard Harry]

Some of our Tattle members have had me in tears these last couple of days, I've lead such a sheltered life so reading your stories has opened my eyes, DA comes in numerous forms, my heart goes out to each one of you who has shared your story with us, you are the heros thank you for being so brave and sharing with us, sending you all virtual ((((hugs)))) which is in all fairness probably more than you'd get from Rachet and her cronies

I echo this.
thank you to everyone who has shared their stories. I am very fortunate to have not experienced domestic abuse, this thread has been an eye opener and I am learning a lot.

 

[OwlWatcher23]

I don't really understand what a women's centre is - is it meant to be like a refuge where they can stay because it didn't look big enough for that? Or more like somewhere to get support leaving / coping or help finding a new job / gaining life skills or something like that?
(I'm also asking more what *should* one be rather than what will hers specifically be)

 

[Shouldbedoingjobs]

£38 on alcohol !!!

That really isn’t a lot to spend on booze at all

 

[FunkyOwl]

I don't really understand what a women's centre is - is it meant to be like a refuge where they can stay because it didn't look big enough for that? Or more like somewhere to get support leaving / coping or help finding a new job / gaining life skills or something like that?
(I'm also asking more what *should* one be rather than what will hers specifically be)

Yea I think it’s just going to be for support rather than a refuge set up. I was going to write a whole paragraph of the things she could do and offer there but tattle gives her enough advice as it is.

 

[GoldenGoss18]

I’ve said this before but R forgets that many of us came here from being fobbed off or ignored for opening up about some really difficult situations. Many of us have seen and experienced things that women who will attend her centre will have had to endured! It fills me with absolute dread that their care will be in her hands. She can’t even send a helpful message back (maybe because no cash came from it) Nothing she has said or done has looked or felt genuine, it’s all been about what she is gaining from it and how it’s boosting her ego! As much as I fully disagree with it ! I really hope she’s going about this women centre correctly and legally because it will be catastrophic to the lives of those women if she hasn’t. Only time will tell .

 

[Wigan23]

Perhaps not quite mind control but def felt like a MLM scheme. And yes you don’t need experience- there were several women who were just ‘survivors’ on my course. But DA more than any other area needs the framework around it, otherwise people die.

PTWM isn’t a credible DA campaigner IMO. She doesn’t highlight key events, issues, campaigns. She doesn’t associate with credible organisations like Safe Lives, Laura Richards. She doesn’t signpost people on to appropriate organisations. She doesn’t show an insight into coercive control.

However, just because she fought ‘Tony’ back doesn’t mean she wasn’t a DA victim. I don’t like the narrative that victims have to behave a certain way. DA is about coercive control, not physical violence. Physical abuse is often a small portion of the abuse suffered, which is designed to eradicate someone’s entire sense of self. So for me PTWM could have fought Tony, she could have instigated violence & still be a victim of his coercive control. Women who are the perpetrators of abuse in their relationships (as people have speculated she is to Josh) have often been victims of DA previously.

I understand people’s discomfort with PTWM being a victim as she’s absolutely full of tit & must have some kind of personality disorder but I wouldn't say she wasn’t a victim to Tony.

I absolutely agree that Rachel

That really isn’t a lot to spend on booze at all

it is if you ‘don’t drink’

 

[Shouldbedoingjobs]

I absolutely agree that Rachel


it is if you ‘don’t drink’

I’m not saying that she doesn’t drink (I’m not a hundred percent sure why she says she doesn’t if she does its a pretty normal thing for an adult to do) but Josh does and that isn’t a lot to spend even if it was just him drinking and they can have people over at the minute too

 

[Bollykecks]

That really isn’t a lot to spend on booze at all

Isn’t that a week though? I don’t drink at all but really? Nearly £40 a week?

 

[Shouldbedoingjobs]

Isn’t that a week though? I don’t drink at all but really? Nearly £40 a week?

Not sure if that is per week but you really can’t judge the booze on the amount our average wine bill a month easily tops £300 plus a month but we love good wine.