Yep 100%, I was that young 14 yr old with a 20yr old bf with a car picking me up from school. He was a criminal, I thought I was the bees knees, but I wasn’t monitored and was allowed to do what I wanted, and in all honesty emotionally neglected, and neurodiverse (unknown at the time) no social media or internet back then either. I had a baby at 17 to him.
Honestly rashflaps you need to step up and safeguard Lula, she’s vulnerable, young, neurodiverse and you don’t know where she is half the time. Step up! Be a parent ffs.